9 sex gift ideas to (give yourself) pleasure at Christmas

Whether it's for Christmas, Valentine's Day, or a birthday, every celebration can be a wonderful opportunity to give your partner pleasure . To help you find that perfect gift that's guaranteed to please, we've gathered a dozen intimate and erotic gift ideas that encourage you to take control of your pleasure and well-being.

A selection of products and experiences for women who proudly embody Puissante's values. And if you're at the stage of putting together your Christmas list, who knows, you might find some inspiration for your wishlist!

1. An erotic book

When we think of a naughty gift , we often think of lace lingerie, sexy games or a mug with a slogan that's been seen a million times.

What if we redefined the image of the present moment for a couple?

Giving an erotic book as a gift is a refined, subtle, and original way to please the person who makes your heart flutter. There's a wide selection of books available, from general ones like a collection of erotic poetry to more specific ones like shibari guides or comics related to particular kinks.

Giving an erotic book as a gift also opens the door to an intimate and shared exploration of desires. By immersing yourself in these stories, you invite your partner to discover new fantasies, to dream, and even to dare to talk about them.

These books can serve as a springboard for discussing topics that are sometimes taboo in a relationship, while also nurturing a shared erotic imagination . They are a gift that allows for curiosity and openness, while sparking enriching discussions about what truly excites us in a playful and intimate setting.

To guide your search, we have selected some ideas for works right here .

2. A clitoral stimulator

If you're looking for a naughty gift to please the woman in your life, we wholeheartedly recommend a vibrator. And not just any one.

A clitoral stimulator , whether it vibrates or incorporates air pulse technology , is THE must-have accessory. Yes, for women, it's generally easier to build arousal and reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation .

A vibrator specifically designed for this area will allow your partner to explore their pleasure solo , to take control of their desires, and also to share intense moments with you . The clitoral vibrator integrates perfectly into intimate play for two, as it wonderfully complements penetration or anal stimulation .

In fact, women are the ones who best describe the joys of having a clitoral stimulator in their collection of vibrators.

“ I don't usually leave reviews, but....
I must say that I fell under his spell.
It's absolutely magical. Suitable for everyone! It has everything you need, exactly where you need it.
The vibrating part is good. But what can I say about the suction/tapping part... magnificent, orgasm guaranteed every time !
I'm addicted.
- S.

“ I can’t describe what I experienced any better than with WOW.
Coco is revolutionizing female masturbation . It's incredibly soft, the design is excellent, and the features are top-notch!
Thank you for creating it! You can go for it without hesitation !
- L.

To choose the right type of sex toy , we recommend reading this article and also asking for advice in store. This way you can see the products, and then wait for sales or special Christmas or Valentine's Day editions to order and receive them with discreet delivery.

PS: Our Coco is dressed in his finest red and gold outfit for the holidays!

3. A sensory massage oil

Transform your intimate moments into a sensual experience by offering a massage oil to your partner.

What's great about this kind of gift is that it's much more than just a cosmetic product. It's the promise of future moments of connection for two.

With each use, you can transform an ordinary evening into a sensual ritual, where touch becomes a form of communication . These moments of shared relaxation strengthen intimacy and allow you to slow down time to savor the present moment.

The oil can even be used during your slow sex moments or to add magic to your Sensate Focus method sessions .

There's a wide selection of brands, from the simplest to the most elegant, with captivating scents and bottles worthy of the greatest perfumers. There's something for every budget and taste. And if you're having trouble choosing, why not try a gift set ?

To choose the right massage oil , opt for a clean , skin-friendly formula . You can rely on consumer apps like Yuka to guide you. Look for natural ingredients that nourish without weighing down the skin, such as jojoba, sweet almond, or coconut oil, and avoid artificial fragrances or chemical additives.

If you enjoy DIY projects, why not try making your own homemade massage oil ? Simply mix a carrier oil with a few drops of lavender, ylang-ylang, or sandalwood essential oils for a soothing and aphrodisiac touch. However, be sure to handle essential oils and their dosage carefully.

4. A boudoir photoshoot

Nothing boosts self-confidence and self-love better than a photoshoot that highlights our sensuality . An intimate photoshoot, alone or as a couple, is an excellent way to rediscover your body from a new perspective, one you don't see every day.

To choose the right boudoir photographer, it's essential to take the time to find someone you feel comfortable with . Many women prefer working with a female photographer, as this can help them feel more at ease during this intimate experience .

Don't hesitate to check reviews left by other clients and browse the photographer's portfolio to ensure their style matches your partner's expectations.

Good communication will allow the session to be personalized according to her tastes, whether she prefers glamorous, sensual or more natural poses . 

5. An erotic advent calendar

At Christmas, all brands now release their traditional advent calendars . The erotic sector is no exception, with products filled with surprises to discover each day. Whether it's sex toys , sensual cosmetics, or sexy challenges to try with your partner, you're sure to find something to delight you as the holidays approach.

The only problem is that an advent calendar is given as a gift before Christmas.

How can we recreate that delightful experience of discovering a surprise while still being able to slip a pretty package under the tree on December 25th?

We had a brilliant idea when we designed a cheeky Advent Calendar . It can be given as a Christmas gift and allows you to savor the last days of the year while continuing to receive gifts day after day.

With its sophisticated and retro box and its selection of intimate goodies to put pleasure back at the center of well-being, it is a must-have for winter 2025 .

6. A subscription to an adult platform… but ethical.

Offering a subscription to an adult content platform may seem surprising at first, but it is part of an ethical approach that aims to properly compensate professionals in the industry.

Unlike free sites, often criticized for their lack of transparency and disrespect for the actors involved, ethical platforms strive to create an environment where the consent and well-being of those being filmed are paramount. This is a valuable contribution that supports a more responsible and respectful approach to sexuality on screen. We'll tell you more about it right here.

Furthermore, offering subscriptions to content is becoming increasingly common, whether for series, podcasts, or online courses. So why not extend this idea to adult content ?

As with the erotic books mentioned above, this type of gift is an opportunity to broaden one's horizons, discover new fantasies and, above all, create a space for dialogue within the couple.

Watching these films, whether individually or together , allows us to discuss our desires, explore new practices, and strengthen our bond through shared moments of discovery. Ultimately, it's all a bonus, isn't it?

7. A pouch for storing your vibrators

A vibrator case is a practical and discreet gift for storing your collection while extending the life of your toys. All your naughty items are kept together, easy to find when the mood strikes, and protected from light and dust.

Between us, who hasn't ever lost the little carrying pouch that comes with our vibrators? ?

You'll find kits at all prices and with every design imaginable. You can choose a touch of humor, a chic pattern, pretty erotic illustrations, or even a personalized design.

Choose a spacious vanity case with a wide opening so you can easily see and remove all its contents. In short, an elegant and functional accessory that will protect your treasures.

8. An introduction to bondage

Shibari is an ancient Japanese art of rope bondage. It emphasizes the aesthetics and sensuality of the ties that envelop the body .

While commonly practiced as a form of bondage within BDSM, shibari is a distinct art form not tied to that aesthetic. It can be practiced outside of BDSM settings , becoming a game of exploring the body and mind, a suspended moment between art and intimacy .

It is not simply about restricting movement, but about creating a visual and tactile experience where each rope is carefully placed, weaving a unique connection between partners.

With an introductory session, you'll learn which ropes to choose, the basic knots, and all the necessary safety precautions. It's an original gift idea, ideal for strengthening (literally) bonds of trust and creating a true space for letting go. The person surrendering to the ropes entrusts their body to the other, which requires fluid communication and mutual listening.

This experience can be a wonderful way to rediscover oneself through touch and the tension of the strings, in a reassuring and caring environment .

9. A game to explore one's desires

Our latest gift idea is a card game that encourages open communication about sexuality , breaks down taboos, and helps people discover each other's intimacy. We all know the classic Truth or Dare, but in recent years, feel-good brands have launched new concepts inspired by positive sexuality . We love it!

We highly recommend Discultons by Merci Beaucul (find them on Instagram): 170 cards for talking about sexuality in a fun and lighthearted way. Whether you've been in a relationship for eight years or are on your first date, whether you're into casual sex, exclusive relationships, or polyamorous relationships, whether you're cis, trans, non-binary, pansexual, or heterosexual, this game is for you!

And why not give it as a Christmas gift to your partner or best friend, the one you talk to about everything? It's an original gift idea that can also spark new conversations.

In the same vein, Jouissance Club has also released its set of cards to get to know you in depth; then move on to practice by testing the most intimate gestures, fantasies, techniques and experiences for even more pleasure and why not prolong the desire in your relationship.

 We hope this list of gifts for adults has inspired you to find something special for your partner, a loved one, or even yourself. Each of our suggestions is also a wonderful gift to give yourself, allowing you to explore your own pleasure and add some joy to your everyday life .

Have you found the perfect idea? Great! Now we suggest you get into the festive holiday spirit with our selection of cozy Christmas movies that break the mold.