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4 misconceptions about anal orgasm

By Aline Arcis

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October 21, 2024

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Although it's still very taboo to talk about anal pleasure and orgasm , sodomy is practiced by 37% of women. Interest in this erogenous zone is only growing as sex education becomes more inclusive and positive. This practice can raise fears and may not appeal to everyone. Yet, many people hesitate to take the plunge, mainly because of apprehensions and a lack of information surrounding it. If anal pleasure intrigues you, but you'd prefer to know more before trying it, you've come to the right place. We'll tell you everything you need to know about anal orgasm !

Does anal orgasm really exist?

Yes, like the clitoris, the anal orgasm is not a myth!

Since the anus is an area made up of highly vascularized and innervated tissues , its stimulation can cause a great deal of pleasure, even leading to orgasm.

Both men and women can experience pleasure through anal stimulation, regardless of their sexual orientation. In men, the prostate area, or P-spot, is the nerve center that can trigger ecstasy.

Women are not to be outdone, as they also possess numerous nerve endings and very thin skin in this area . During stimulation, the pelvic muscles contract with pleasure. These delightful sensations spread throughout the genital area , especially if the clitoris is stimulated simultaneously.

For some women, the practice is a way to completely let go , because they are not afraid of getting pregnant, but can still enjoy penetration.

Anal dilation is the process by which the muscles of the anal sphincter and the anal canal relax and widen to allow the insertion of fingers, toys, or a penis.

This area being particularly erogenous, it can cause orgasms in the same way as the clitoris or the breasts.

Misconceptions about anal orgasm

1. "Anal orgasm is rare and difficult to achieve."

As we saw just above, the anus is made up of a very large number of nerve endings.

This anatomy makes its stimulation very pleasant and therefore increases arousal.

The ease of achieving this type of orgasm depends on a multitude of factors such as the sensitivity of the area, the level of relaxation, self-knowledge, and trust in one's partner.

To guide you towards anal pleasure, we highly recommend simultaneously stimulating the anus and the clitoris .

Spoiler alert : slow back-and-forth movements can trigger explosive orgasms quite quickly!

This doesn't mean that anal stimulation alone can't be enough to reach orgasm. It's up to you to explore!

2. "It's painful and uncomfortable."

Pain during anal stimulation usually occurs when there is not enough lubricant or if the muscles are still too tense.

That's why it's essential to take your time and lubricate this area of the body sufficiently . Gently stimulating the area with your fingers, tongue, the glans of the penis, or even a toy will allow the muscles to relax little by little.

If the pain persists, stop penetration ; sexuality should not be a source of suffering, but rather of pleasure! Resume later or work on relaxing the anus by stimulating other erogenous parts of the body such as the breasts, thighs, vulva or neck.

3. "It's dirty and dangerous to your health."

The first thing people think of when they mention anal sex is that the anus is primarily an organ for defecation. Associating pleasure with bowel movements can therefore be complicated.

We completely understand the feeling of disgust or embarrassment associated with this area of the body.

Sodomy can be dirty and dangerous to health if initiated without precautions and preparation.

But don't panic, a few simple precautions will ensure everything goes smoothly. You'll find all our best tips in the following section.

4. "It's not for everyone"

The myth of Sodom and Gomorrah is a biblical story that recounts the history of two cities, Sodom and Gomorrah, which were destroyed by God for their sins. According to Genesis, these cities were known for their debauchery and depravity, particularly with regard to sexual practices.

In addition to our Christian cultural heritage, anal penetration is also wrongly associated with relationships between homosexual men.

The collective imagination surrounding this practice is therefore fraught with stigma.

However, from an anatomical point of view, we can all derive a lot of pleasure from it.

It is then up to each individual to try according to the limits of their values, beliefs and the response of their body.

Some precautions to take

Take it easy

Before you begin, take the time to discuss your expectations, limits, and concerns with your partner .

When the moment arrives, also take the time to relax first, then to build up desire.

Relaxation and arousal are the two most important factors for the sphincter to open and allow pleasure to occur.

Why not spend some time receiving a full body massage that becomes increasingly intimate?

Start with the back, skull and neck before gently moving down to the hips, then the buttocks, genitals, vagina, clitoris, and finally finish around the anus.

Anal penetration is quite different from vaginal penetration. It requires constant, but light, pressure on the anus . The important thing is to listen to your sensations and trust your body.

Go at your own pace, don't feel obligated to succeed on the first try .

Don't skimp on the lubricant

Unlike the vagina, the anal area does not lubricate itself naturally . It needs a little help to enjoy it.

Our advice: use a mild, water-based lubricant for your intimate area. They are super easy to clean and are compatible with both vibrators and condoms.

Our clean formula with lily extract and aloe vera is perfect for all your explorations.

Don't hesitate to reapply lubricant during sexual activity to maintain good glide and avoid unpleasant friction .

Try the experiment again

It's perfectly normal not to succeed on the first try. Sexuality is not a competition.

Like any new exploration, understanding and getting to know your body can take time.

Repeat the experience regularly to familiarize yourself with the sensations and find what you like.

Protect yourself

STIs are just as transmissible through the anus as through the vagina.

Condoms remain the best way to reduce the risk of transmission. They also protect against bacterial infections.

Warning: Do not switch from anal to vaginal penetration without changing condoms. If you switch from anal to vaginal or oral penetration, change condoms to avoid cross-contamination.

Insert only suitable items

If you have medical personnel in your circle, chances are you've already heard some improbable stories about objects being inserted.

The rectum has the ability to "suction" inserted objects due to its muscular structure and internal pressure.

That's why the design of sex toys like plugs or rosaries always has a flared base or a handle.

If you wish to explore anal pleasure using vibrators, always opt for products designed for this purpose . As for materials, you'll be safe with medical-grade silicone, glass, or metal if you want to experiment with temperature.

Clean your accessory thoroughly after use with antibacterial soap or a formula suitable for sex toys such as our cleaning foam.

To perform an enema

A mild enema can be performed with lukewarm water for greater comfort. However, avoid using irritating solutions; take the time to do your research.

Limit enemas to special occasions to avoid disrupting the natural intestinal flora and causing irritation.

Our bonus tips for achieving an anal orgasm

Exploring the body

For a woman, knowing her own body and erogenous zones is essential.

Personal exploration with fingers or vibrators allows you to discover what gives you pleasure before having sexual relations with a partner.

Relax

Relaxing the anal muscles is crucial to avoid pain.

Take some time to relax with a massage or a warm bath before starting anal stimulation for even more pleasure.

Diversify the stimulation

Alternating between different forms of stimulation can increase the chances of reaching orgasm more easily.

Alternate between anal penetration with fingers or a vibrator and clitoral or G-spot stimulation.

Vary the positions

Certain positions are more favorable for the insertion of an object or a penis.

The spooning, the andromache position, or lying on your back with your legs raised offer more comfortable access and control over the depth and rhythm of penetration.

Progress slowly

Start with light caresses and penetrations to allow the body to adjust to the sensations. Gradually increase the intensity according to your comfort and reactions.

Once the object is inserted, maintain constant pressure and make slow back-and-forth movements . This allows the muscles around the object to relax.

Avoid sudden or rapid movements that could cause discomfort or injury or lead to contraction of the anus.

You now have all the tools you need to achieve anal orgasm! There's no age limit to expanding your sexual horizons . The important thing is to take your time, listen to your body, and trust yourself. To continue exploring and expanding your sexual repertoire, why not try edging ? This method for amplifying pleasure pairs very well with anal sex.