How to masturbate with a cushion? The technique of humping

A faithful ally for sleep, the pillow isn't just for when you're in the arms of Morpheus. For decades, it has been used as a masturbation aid. belongs to the broad spectrum of sexual practices.

This masturbation technique is very common among women, especially from adolescence onward. Still somewhat taboo, masturbation with a pillow is also effective for finding sexual pleasure and even reaching orgasm . How can you pleasure yourself with a pillow? What are the different humping techniques ?

Here there are no taboos, we explain everything.

What you need to know about humping

What exactly is humping?

Humping , or "dry humping ," comes from the English verb " to hump, " which colloquially means "to kiss." This expression was originally used to describe a dog rubbing itself against a human leg. The "dry" refers to the absence of bodily fluids during this activity.

With no direct equivalent in French, this expression is called dry rubbing or frotti-frotta. Humping generally consists of rubbing one's private parts against an inanimate object or a person.

To do it alone, you simply need to masturbate, without using your hands , but with any object (cushion, chair, stair railing, etc.). However, if you want to do it with a partner, you should consider masturbation with a pillow as merely foreplay , even though it can provide pleasure, or even lead to orgasm .

What are the advantages of humping?

The main advantage of humping is that it doesn't require you to undress. Another advantage is that this practice can help prevent the transmission of STIs or other sexually transmitted infections, as long as your mucous membranes don't come into contact.

Its effectiveness depends on the quality of your garment:

• The thicker the fabric, the less effective it will be.

• The thinner and more slippery it is, the more pleasure you'll get.

This female masturbation technique is common among young girls who are discovering their bodies.

Several studies show that girls discover masturbation and its pleasures by using a pillow or other objects . This technique is also familiar to men. The friction and pressure exerted against the glans or clitoris during this practice provide pleasure in a different way.

Is humping risky?

Humping can become risky when the friction is intense or excessive, especially for men. It can cause burns and sometimes abscesses . Even though the risk is lower for women, you should still be careful. The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings that can be damaged by strong or prolonged friction.

Relying solely on this technique to achieve orgasm can become a hindrance when it comes to experiencing pleasure through other means. You will develop orgasmic reflexes specific to this technique.

Your orgasmic reflexes depend on your Preferred sexual positions and how you practice humping. These positions and this method of masturbation may not necessarily be easy to achieve with other sexual practices.

Keep in mind that non-consensual humping can be considered sexual harassment . It is categorized as frotteurism.

How to use a pillow for pleasure?

Sexual pleasure is relative and depends on each individual's body and fantasies. Therefore, everyone knows how to achieve pleasure using a pillow. This is precisely why there are several techniques for experiencing pleasure with a pillow.

1. The classic technique

It's very simple, here are a few examples:

• Lie down on your back

• Fold the pillow in half between your thighs.

• Rub your clitoris against the folded cushion, which is held securely between your thighs.

This is a classic form of female masturbation . To increase pleasure, you can even insert a vibrator into the crease .

2. The battery technique

Another masturbation technique involving a pillow is called “the pile”:

• Stack several pillows,

• Sit on it and then rub your genitals against this pile.

This creates more density and cushioning. You can vary your positions: straddle the pile, sit with your feet together, or even kneel on the pile.

3. Lying on her side

You can also lie on your side . Then, place the pillow flat between your thighs so that the ends are positioned on either side of your genitals. Rub the pillow against your genitals while moving your pelvis. Increase the pressure as your clitoris becomes engorged with blood and your pleasure intensifies.

To reach orgasm even more easily, you can try it with a full bladder. This also puts internal pressure on your penis , allowing you to reach orgasm more quickly. Don't worry, you won't wet the pillow.

4. Vary the types of pillows for humping

You can vary the types of pillows according to their shape, ergonomics, and quality with each of your masturbation techniques. This allows you to experience masturbation with a pillow even more deeply .

Beyond all these techniques, a pillow also remains an essential support during several sexual practices . Indeed, a pillow can be used to elevate you during anal or missionary sex for maximum penetration!

It also acts as a buffer against muscle fatigue during practices like doggy style or when you have sex while pregnant. To broaden your range of possibilities, you can try other masturbation techniques in different positions, using different methods.

How to masturbate using alternatives to a pillow?

You have many other options available to you for masturbating and reaching orgasm . For example, you can use your fingers to caress your clitoris until you feel pleasure. You can also use a chair, a showerhead, or a vibrator to masturbate.

How to masturbate with a chair?

Have you thought about your chair? Yes, it can perfectly facilitate a pleasant "masturbation" session !

You can use the edges of a chair or the flat part to masturbate, whether you're clothed or not. To use the flat part, simply sit with your legs together or straddle the chair. This way, your genitals are in contact with the chair .

Next, make gradual back-and-forth movements , rubbing your clitoris against the chair at a comfortable pace. Do the same when using the chair's edge. However, in this case, you must straddle the chair to maximize contact between your genitals and the edge.

Depending on what arouses you, you can straddle the edge completely or position it from behind or in front against your clitoris. However, it's advisable to choose a smooth or polished chair to facilitate gliding and also to avoid any irritation .

How to use fingers as a means of masturbation?

There are a myriad of techniques for pleasuring oneself alone , but only our fingers are accessible to us for life and in all weather.

Mastering your body is essential for reaching orgasm quickly . The clitoris prefers moisture, so it is not recommended to caress it directly with a dry finger.

This organ is very sensitive, so it is important to be gentle when caressing it.

You absolutely must go slowly and start with foreplay . This involves caressing the contours of your genitals, your vagina, your breasts , your body gradually in order to increase arousal.

The clitoris swells with blood and becomes more erogenous as arousal intensifies. To avoid touching the clitoris with a dry hand, you can use lubricant or a little water. You can also wait until vaginal lubrication occurs .

1. Caress your clitoris

Depending on what feels right for you, you can use light, gradually rhythmic caresses that become faster and faster. You can also apply firm pressure, as you prefer. Some women prefer to use the palms of their hands, while others use one finger, then two, or even more.

2. Tap your clitoris

At the same time, instead of applying pressure, you can tap the clitoris and then increase the speed according to your arousal. Vary the caress between clockwise and counterclockwise to increase arousal. In any case, increasing the speed intensifies pleasure and leads to orgasm.

3. Stimulate your G-spot

You can also stimulate the clitoris by Caressing the G-spot from inside the vagina. This part of the vagina is erogenous, with thin membranes that facilitate access to the G-spot. To begin, slide a still-moist finger about two centimeters inside the front of the pubic bone.

Gently stroke, feel, or scratch the membrane of your vulva to feel the difference. To enhance orgasm , you can simultaneously use your other hand to caress your clitoris or breasts .

How to masturbate with the shower head?

The shower is an intimate and special place where you can be alone with yourself. Often associated with relaxation and self-care , it's an ideal place to touch yourself and give yourself pleasure .

The jet of water from the showerhead proves to be a great source of orgasms . Its contact with your clitoris can be a source of intense pleasure . The wave progresses and the sensations intensify as you move your hand in rhythm with your own pleasure.

This practice offers several variations. Your enjoyment will vary depending on:

• heat: lukewarm, hot or cold water;

• the pressure: strong, gentle or jerky;

• the distance between the shower head and your genitals;

• The position: standing, sitting, lying down in the bathtub.

Direct the shower jet towards your vulva and test the pressure and temperature.

Adjust according to your pleasure and let the water stimulate you and do its job of pressure.

For added benefits, you can also play around with moving the shower head closer to and further away from your clitoris to vary the sensations of the massage!

How to masturbate with a vibrator?

A sex toy , whether it's a vibrator or not, is specifically designed to provide pleasure. Some aim for more G-spot stimulation inside the vagina, while others target the clitoris .

At Puissante, we love versatile vibrators that offer multiple stimulation modes. For example, the Coco has two parts: a suction part and a vibrating part.

• The vibrating part can be used to caress your vulva or other erogenous zones (breasts, lips, etc.). It can also be used during penetration to caress the inside of the vagina, particularly the G-spot.

• The suction part, on the other hand, is non-penetrating. It emits pressure waves and is used for clitoral or breast suction.

A clitoral stimulator might be right for you if you want to stimulate the external part of your clitoris. Among vibrators, the clitoral stimulator is a favorite.

Whatever your method of stimulation, we recommend using lubricant ! Applying lubricant during sexual intercourse, whether alone or with others, with or without penetration , will greatly enhance pleasure.

You're now an expert on humping . Grab your favorite cushion, close your bedroom curtains, and embark on a journey of pleasure!