How to find your G-spot and stimulate it?

The G-spot has been the subject of much debate since its discovery, both regarding its true existence and beliefs about its shape and stimulation . This article explains everything about this erogenous zone . How do you find it, stimulate it alone or with your partner? What sensations will it give you? And finally, which vibrators should you use to stimulate this pleasure zone ?

What is the G-spot?

It was Ernst Gräfenberg , a German sexologist, who announced its discovery in the 1950s and who gave it its initial in 1981.

However, this erogenous zone, hidden at the entrance of the vagina in women, is a subject of debate among scientists and sexologists. Some tend to think that the G-spot is just a myth, but isn't it also ultimately a victim of taboos?

As a reminder, the clitoris, an organ exclusively dedicated to pleasure in women, was discovered in 1559, forgotten until 1968 , and for good reason: the repression of masturbation and female pleasure!

This organ, exclusively dedicated to pleasure, continues to be discovered and re-studied by scientists even today.

While this area, which is much more than just erogenous, has not finished revealing its secrets and effects to us, some scientists believe that the clitoris and the G-spot are actually the same!

To understand G-spot stimulation, you must first know that most of the clitoris actually extends internally behind the labia majora.

Scientists have also realized that there is not only the G-spot, but that in fact, we are dealing with a complete G-zone.

1. Anterior wall of the vagina
   The inner surface of the anterior vaginal wall.
   
   

2. Erectile tissue
   Located around the G-spot, this tissue fills with blood during stimulation.
   
   

3. Paraurethral glands or Skene's glands
   These glands are located around the urethra and are sometimes associated with the G-spot.
   
   

4. Urethra
   The tube that carries urine from the bladder, located near the G-spot and influencing the sensitivity of the area.
   
   

5. Internal branches of the clitoris
   The vestibular bulbs and the corpora cavernosa of the clitoris which extend deep inside, around the urethra and vagina.

While some research still doubts the existence of the G-spot, the best way to know if it exists is to explore your own body. 

How to find your G-spot

G-spot masturbation

According to a study conducted by Le Point.fr magazine , only 10% of women identify the G-spot . We're here to increase that number and help women discover a new zone of pleasure.

Masturbation will help you get to know your G-spot. It's the best way to (re)discover and get to know your body!

The best advice we can give you is to make yourself comfortable . Being alone will allow you to take your time and enhance the pleasure.  With your fingers or whatever you like, in whatever position suits you . Don't aim to reach orgasm directly. Instead, embrace the role of an explorer of what gives you pleasure.

1. Masturbate as you like to do to get yourself aroused! You can start by massaging your labia with your fingers to stimulate the bulbs of the internal part of the clitoris.

2. Next, make small circles by applying pressure with your fingers on the glans . When you feel ready, gently insert one or two fingers in a hooked position about 2 to 5 centimeters into the anterior vaginal wall. You'll recognize the G-spot by its more bumpy or rough texture compared to the rest of the vaginal wall.

3. Every body is different ; there's no set path to it. Its location varies from woman to woman. Trust your instincts.

4. With your fingers still hooked, tap while applying pressure to different places, until you find the area that you like.

5. You can also make circular or lateral movements, the variations are endless! Don't forget to lubricate, with this lube for example .

Did you know? Men also have a G-spot (or P-spot) ! It is reached through anal stimulation as it is close to the prostate. 

How to help your partner find the G-spot?

Finding your G-spot on your own first gives you an advantage when it comes to guiding your partner ! But he or she can also help you find it.

Exploring your G-spot with a partner is a wonderful adventure. You can lie on your back with your knees bent and feet flat. Then, using your fingers, the procedure is the same.

Effective G-spot stimulation for two people requires open and honest communication . Take the time you need to talk about it, share your sensations, learn together, and then put it into practice. Share your masturbatory discoveries and explain what the G-spot is.

Next, describe the sensations you prefer and your favorite positions for achieving pleasure. And don't forget to take your time. 

Does the G-spot cause an orgasm?

Clitoral orgasm and vaginal orgasm: a brief reminder

We often differentiate between "vaginal orgasm" and " clitoral orgasm ." However, as we saw earlier, the clitoris is connected to the vagina . These two supposedly distinct types of orgasm actually originate in the clitoris!

The stimulation is simply different. Orgasm achieved through external stimulation may be easier for some women. The intensity of orgasm varies from person to person; some will experience more sensation from stimulation of the clitoral glans, others from stimulation of the G-spot.

How to specifically stimulate the G-spot?

Stimulating the G-spot typically requires firmer pressure and precise, rhythmic movements, which can take time to master. It's also important to take the time to connect the nerves to the brain to map the sensations to this rarely visited area of the body. This may require some form of training.

But let's not forget that orgasm doesn't depend solely on the stimulation created . Your psychological state, your libido level , the environment you're in, and your physical and mental health always come into play.

There's no magic formula or secret to reaching seventh heaven. That's why it shouldn't be your primary goal! Just let yourself go without any pressure. 

Kamasutra positions special for the G-spot

During sexual intercourse with your partner(s), you can also stimulate the G-spot through penetration using the different positions of the Kamasutra!

• Turn your back to your partner and lean forward, supporting yourself on their legs; the Proud Queen will be a perfect position to stimulate this area.

• It is also possible to stimulate the G-spot in doggy style , since the penis thus reaches the upper part of the vagina more easily.

You or your partner can simultaneously stimulate the external part of the clitoris to enhance sensations at the G-spot. Multiple stimulation is a direct elevator to seventh heaven.

Kamasutra positions special for the G-spot

During sexual intercourse with your partner(s), you can also stimulate the G-spot through penetration using the different positions of the Kamasutra !

Turn your back to your partner and lean forward, supporting yourself on their legs; the proud queen position is perfect for stimulating this area. 👑

It is also possible to stimulate the G-spot in doggy style , since the penis thus reaches the upper part of the vagina more easily.

You or your partner can simultaneously stimulate the external part of the clitoris to enhance sensations at the G-spot . Multiple stimulation is a direct elevator to seventh heaven. 🚀

Which vibrators stimulate the G-spot?

Vibrators specifically designed for G-spot stimulation exist . Their curved design allows them to easily reach the upper wall of the vagina.

Designed to help you explore your pleasure, they are gentle to use. You can activate the vibration modes or simply create pressure through rocking or back-and-forth movements! Some offer oscillation modes or even have a ball for added sensation.

The G-spot becomes increasingly sensitive with continued stimulation, so don't give up!

If you enjoy using vibrators during sex with your partner, you can use a vibrating cock ring . It's placed around your partner's penis and vibrates! You can also place it on your fingers.

What better way to intensify pleasure than with a dual stimulator ? That's exactly what Coco offers , thanks to its suction part that stimulates your clitoris and its vibrating part that effectively reaches the G-spot for penetration . Because it's foldable, it adapts perfectly to different body shapes! Its versatility allows you to take complete time for yourself and explore your body in a variety of ways.

After taking our first steps in discovering orgasm through clitoral stimulation, exploring the G-spot is an extraordinary new quest. To delve even deeper into your pleasure, why not try edging ? A fantastic technique to make your lovemaking last even longer…