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How to masturbate with a cushion? 🛌

A faithful ally of sleep, the cushion is not only useful when you are in the arms of Morpheus. For decades, its use as an object of masturbation has belonged to the broad spectrum of sexual practices . This masturbation technique is very common among women, especially from adolescence onwards.

Still taboo, masturbation with a pillow is also effective for finding sexual pleasure and even reaching orgasm . How to please yourself with this form of masturbation? What are the different techniques for achieving orgasm with a pillow ?

There are no taboos here, we explain everything to you. ✌️

The benefits of humping

  • No need to undress
  • You can do this with many objects
  • Can be practiced alone or in pairs

Humping

Humping , or even " dry humping", comes from the English verb to hump which commonly means "to kiss". This expression was originally used to characterize a dog rubbing against a human leg. Dry refers to the absence of fluids during this exercise.

With no real equivalent in French, this expression is called dry friction or frotti-frotta. Humping generally consists of rubbing one's private parts against an inert object or a person.

To do it alone, you just have to masturbate, without your hands, but with any object (cushion, chair, banister, etc.). On the other hand, if you want to do it as a couple, you need to rub your sexes against each other without direct contact .

You can also rub your penis against your partner's body, always wearing clothing to avoid direct contact.

The domination of heterosexuality in our societies leads to wrongly considering certain practices such as masturbation with a pillow as only foreplay, when they are able to provide pleasure, or even an orgasm.

The primary advantage of humping is that it does not require you to undress. The other advantage is that this practice can prevent you from contracting STIs or other sexually transmitted diseases, as long as your mucous membranes are not in contact.

Its effectiveness depends on the quality of your garment:

  • The thicker the fabric, the less effective it would be,
  • The thinner and more slippery it is, the more pleasure you will get.

This female masturbation technique is common among young girls who are discovering their bodies.

Several studies show that girls discover masturbation and its pleasures by masturbating with a cushion or with other objects. This technique is not unknown to men either. The friction and pressure exerted during this practice against the glans or the clitoris provide pleasure in another way.

Humping can become risky when the rubbing is intense or abusive, especially in men. It can cause burns and sometimes abscesses. Even though the risk is lower in women, you still need to be careful. The clitoris has 8000 nerve endings which can be damaged in the event of strong or too long friction.

Abusing only this technique to achieve orgasm can become disabling when it comes to climaxing by another means. In fact, using only this technique will make you develop orgasmic reflexes specific to this technique.

Your orgasmic reflexes are dependent on your favorite sexual positions and how you practice humping. These positions and this way of masturbating may not necessarily be easy to achieve with other sexual practices.

Remember that non-consensual humping can be considered sexual harassment. It is categorized as frotteurism.

How to use a pillow to please yourself?

Sexual pleasure is relative and is a factor of each person's body and fantasies. So everyone knows how to get pleasure using a pillow. This is why there are several techniques for obtaining pleasure with a cushion.

It's very simple, we'll give you a few:

  • Lie on your back
  • Fold the pillow in half between your thighs.
  • Rub your clit against the folded, well-guarded cushion between your thighs.

This is the great classic of female masturbation . To increase the pleasure, you can even insert a vibrator into the fold 😏

Another masturbation technique involving the pillow is called the stack:

  • Stack several pillows,
  • Sit on it then rub your penis against this pile.

This creates more density and cushioning. You can vary the positions: straddle the pile, sit with your feet together or even kneel on the pile.

You can also lie on your side. Then, you place the pillow flat between your thighs so as to hold the ends on either side of your penis. You then rub the pillow against your penis while moving your pelvis . You increase the pressure as the clitoris swells with blood and the pleasure increases.

To reach orgasm even more easily, you can try it with a full bladder. This also puts pressure on your penis from the inside. Thus, orgasm is reached more quickly. Don't panic, you won't risk urinating on the pillow.

You can vary the types of pillows depending on the shape, ergonomics and quality with each of the techniques for masturbating. This allows you to experience cushion masturbation even more in depth.

Apart from all its techniques, the pillow also remains an essential support during many sexual practices. In fact, the pillow is used to lift you up during cunnilingus or during missionary for maximum penetration!

It also serves as a shock absorber against muscle fatigue during practices such as doggy style or when you make love while pregnant. To broaden your range of possibilities, you can test other masturbation techniques in other positions, with other means.

How to masturbate using cushion alternatives?

You have many other alternatives within your reach to masturbate and achieve orgasm. For example, you can use your fingers to caress your clitoris until you feel pleasure. You can use a chair, the shower head or a vibrator to masturbate.

How to masturbate with a chair? 🪑

Have you thought about your chair ? Yes, it can perfectly promote a pleasant “masturbation” session!

You can use the edges of a chair or the flat part to masturbate with or without clothes. To use the flat part, simply sit with your legs together or astride the chair. Thus, your penis is in contact with the chair.

Then you make gradual back and forth movements , rubbing your clitoris against the chair at a pace that suits you. Do the same when using ledges. But, here, you must necessarily step over the chair to maximize the contact of your penis with the edge. Depending on what excites you, you can straddle the rim completely or position it from the back or front against your clitoris. However, you should choose a smooth or well polished chair to facilitate sliding and also to avoid any irritation.

How to use fingers as means of masturbation?

There are a myriad of techniques for solo pleasure , but only the fingers are accessible to us for life and in all weathers. ✌️

Controlling your body is essential to quickly reach orgasm. This way, you are able to know what gives you pleasure. The clitoris prefers humidity, so it is not recommended to caress it directly with a dry finger.

The clitoris is very sensitive, so it is important to be gentle when caressing it. You definitely need to take it slowly and start with foreplay. It involves caressing the contours of your penis, your vagina, your breasts , your body gradually in order to build excitement.

The clitoris swells with blood and becomes more erogenous as the arousal intensifies. To avoid caressing the clitoris with a dry hand, you can use lubricant such as Puissante intimate lubricating gel or a little water. You can also wait for the time to secrete the love juice.

Depending on what suits you, you can perform light caresses progressively rhythmic and increasingly faster. You can also apply strong pressure according to your convenience. Some women prefer to use the palms of their hands, others use one finger then two or more. 🖐

At the same time, instead of pressure, you can tap the clitoris and then accelerate according to your excitement. Vary the stroke between clockwise and counterclockwise to increase arousal. In any case, speeding up increases the pleasure and leads you to an orgasm.

You can also excite the clitoris by stroking the G-spot from inside the vagina . This part of the vagina is erogenous with thin membranes which facilitate access to the G-spot. To begin, slide a still-wet finger two centimeters onto the anterior surface of the pubis.

Caress, feel or lightly scratch the membrane of your penis to notice the difference. To increase orgasm, you can use your other hand and stroke the clitoris or breasts at the same time .

How to masturbate with the shower head? 🚿

The shower is an intimate and privileged place where you find yourself with yourself. Often associated with relaxation and self-care, it is an ideal place to touch yourself and treat yourself to pleasure.

The jet of water coming from the shower head turns out to be a great provider of orgasms. Its coming into contact with your clit can be a source of intense pleasure. The gradual wave of sensations builds as you move your hand in time with your own pleasure.

This practice offers several varieties. Your pleasure varies according to:

  • heat: lukewarm, hot or cold water;
  • pressure: strong, gentle or jerky;
  • the distance between the knob and your penis;
  • the position: standing, sitting, lying in the bathtub.

Direct the shower jet toward your vulva and test the pressure and temperature . 🚿

Adjust according to your pleasure and let the water stimulate you and do its work of pressure.

For more benefits, you can also play by moving the knob closer and further away from your clitoris to vary the sensations of the massage!

How to masturbate with a vibrator?

A sex toy , whether a vibrator, dildo or other, is specially designed to provide pleasure. Some aim more at stimulating the G-spot inside the vagina, while others target the clitoris .

There are a large number of vibrators, but ours are particularly recommended to you. We offer: the Coco vibrator and the Toupie massager vibrator .

Our Coco vibrator has two parts: a suction part and a vibrating part. The vibrating part can be used to caress your vulva or other erogenous zones (breasts, lips, etc.). It can also be used for penetration to caress the inside of the vagina, particularly the G-spot.

The suction part is non-penetrating. It emits pressure waves and is used for sucking the clitoris or breasts.

Equipped with 10 modes for each function, 7 intensity levels and 3 random modes, Coco can bend to adapt to your body shape and penetrate or not according to your needs. This offers you several sensations and various intensities of caresses.

A clitoral simulator may be suitable for you if you want to stimulate your clitoris on its external part. Among vibrators, the clitoral stimulator is the one that is much more popular among women.

Our Toupie vibrator, due to its shape, is ideal for allowing you to explore all the erogenous zones of your body . It is easy to hold and manipulate with its ten intensity levels. You also have the possibility of combining the Coco and Toupie vibrators for unique orgasms throughout your being.

We recommend using lubricant ! By applying lubricant during sexual intercourse, whether alone or with others, with or without penetration , the pleasure will be considerably increased! 😅

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