The gradual installation of routine in sexual practices is a situation that almost all couples go through after a few years. The flames of mutually shared passion at the beginning begin to die out. To rekindle them and give a little spice and seasoning to your sex life as a couple , you need new experiences in bed . The cultivation of sexual desire, the sharing of fantasies, role playing and the use of exciting devices such as vibrators are recommended solutions to avoid a drop in libido in the couple.

Guide to new experiences

Sexting to cultivate desire

Well known for their great ability to boost sexual desire naturally, sexting can be used to install desire from a distance, to create anticipation and to increase excitement before meeting again. Little tip: reread yourself carefully before and don't get the wrong recipient... 🙈

These are messages to generally evoke the pleasure shared last night and announce the performances you are planning for the evening.

It is a very aphrodisiac conversation that makes you fantasize about your upcoming sexual encounters as a couple. As soon as the discussion starts with sexting, you can fuel it with email exchanges, phone calls or sensual photos. Your partner would inevitably be excited to read a “ can’t wait to feel the softness of your lips on my thighs ” coming from you in broad daylight and to imagine you at your workplace with photos.

In reality, all sexual desire has its source in the imagination. And with simple sexts, you can stimulate your partner's ability to imagine all the things he could do to you in bed at night. A lustful message that you send him unexpectedly when it's only late in the morning can only flood him with excitement. He will definitely be in a hurry to get home in the evening.

Blocking out several hours , or even several days, to ride the wave of pleasure is a great way to make room for excitement. Having a few hours to spare allows more time for caresses, exploring our sensations and mapping each other's bodies with our hands.

Telling your unspeakable fantasies

Talking to your partner about your fantasies is one of the most delicate exercises in a couple's life. However, it is a step to take from time to time to spice up your sex life by new experiences. Most of the time, you are afraid of hurting your partner's sensibilities. But you can't be sure what effect it will have on him without experimenting. This could well give you an extraordinary experience.

For this trick to be effective, you need to be well prepared. Make sure to live these moments of delicate communication in very good conditions. Express your fantasies with the intention of sharpening sexual curiosity within the couple. Discover the unconfessed erotic dreams that you have in common. In this exchange, you must keep in mind that your partner may not share the same fantasies than you.

In reality, Fantasies are very personal. Therefore, you cannot expect your partner to be ready to fulfill them for you. He or she should in turn expect the same from you. But if oddly enough, you realize that you share the same desires, so treat yourself .

Your fantasies can also remain in your little secret garden, not acting on them can be very exciting !

Role playing games

We often don't realize it, but role-playing games within a couple constitute real objects of awakening the sexual flame . They are of remarkable importance for building a lasting sexual relationship with one's partner. These role plays make much more use of variety in sexual intercourse. This saves you from the routine or frees you from it if you are already in it.

The culture of variety in sexual relations does not translate not just changing positions or trying new practices . It's much more about learning how to make love with your partner in a different way. Being a new person from time to time. In this change of character, the part of your brain that does not differentiate between reality and imagination is very favorable. It quickly immerses you in the universe of the character you decide to embody.

Whether fictional or not, this new character that you build for yourself arouses the desired excitement and gives you pleasure. This requires a good bond between the two of you. One of the best-known role-playing games is that of dominant-dominated . But in choosing these games, it is necessary let your imagination run wild .

Erotic films for couples

Watching erotic films as a couple is undoubtedly one of the most exciting ways to relive the desires of the first months of a relationship. It awakens in you the burning flames of desire and love that animated you at the beginning of your relationship. The rapid rise in libido in front of these films will make you very quickly look away from the screen to concentrate on your partner.

The crazy excitement that comes from watching movie sequences floods you with desire. This immerses you in a very exciting sexual relationship in front of the screen . The images retained from the film feed your imagination in a loop. The latter will take over to make you live the most unimaginable fantasies.

The risk of being seen

Finding yourself in conditions where you risk being seen causes a form of exceptional excitement. It is a crazy experience you can have to spice up your sex life even more in a relationship. The urge to have sex in public has probably crossed your mind! But you don't give in so as not to make a mess. There must be some secluded spots where you can be almost sure not to get caught. So do a bit of sightseeing.

The risk factor, not only amplifies excitement but causes a feeling of escape that removes the barriers of enjoyment. It makes you enjoy a very special and unforgettable experience.

Using a vibrator as a couple

Using a vibrator during sex is a practice that makes you live a new and unique experience. It is an excellent practice to break the sexual routine within couples and enjoy new sensations. She has the art of boosting the libido and making you discover more of the erogenous zones. of your body. Through its role as a stimulant, it causes strong excitement and increases orgasmic pleasure tenfold.

First of all, vibrators bring something new to your relationship and allow you to discover new sensations, together . They can easily be integrated into your erotic games by becoming your new partner. 😉

Indeed, vibrators will stimulate the libido and help you to increasingly sensitize your erogenous zones.

In reality, the moments of sexual intercourse at the beginning of every romantic relationship are real moments of mixing between love and passion . To maintain these performances or to reawaken this passion when it is dormant in you, the vibrator produces a magical effect. It brings the spice you need to unleash the flames of the initial passion. You can initially use it alone , in a fairly intimate setting to prepare yourself for new experiences.

Although it is very practical to make your couple live fabulous experiences in bed, the vibrator is used first on oneself. Thanks to individual masturbation with this small accessory, each member of the couple prepares for its use. It helps you discover how your body works in terms of sexuality and allows you to better communicate about your desires. This enriches the understanding of your partner's desires. Using a vibrator during foreplay can bring something new, unknown, exciting: masturbation as a couple !

To make your new experience in bed special and original, you need to make a good choice of vibrator . Some models are able to stimulate both the vagina and the clitoris. You should consider your own needs and features. Among others, you can choose one of the models that are:

• the Coco vibrator : it is an exciting tool that provides a perfect balance between the enjoyment of both partners during sexual intercourse. Its vibrating part is inserted into the vagina to produce strong excitement before penetration. It can also be passed over the glans of the penis to stimulate it further.

• The Vibrating Egg : it is a vibrator designed to fully satisfy women. It ensures immense pleasure. With its ovoid appearance, it is covered with lubricant before being inserted into the vagina . Therefore, for a relationship as a couple, the remote control of the device must be left under the control of the partner.

• vibrating rings : these are arousal accessories that are placed around the penis. They ensure the maintenance of the erection in men and amplify the excitement of both partners. During penetration, The vibratory movements simultaneously stimulate both partners.

Playing erotic board games

Erotic board games are a very good ways to spice up the sex life within your couple. These are simple games that are quite fun but have a great power to intensify sexual pleasure . They are designed with the help of sexologists who are specialists in the field. When the rules of the game are well mastered by both partners, the adoption of this technique becomes very beneficial . The needs for novelty within the couple are well satisfied.

Generally speaking, erotic board games allow both partners to discover more about each other. These are games in which there are no losers. Everyone comes out a winner. Many communication barriers that once prevented you from making your fantasies understood by your partner are removed. Through these games, all topics can be covered and in a subtle way, everyone gets answers to their previously unacknowledged concerns.

The great interest of these games is revealed when you discover with great surprise, new facets of your partner's desires. In a fun way, These games make you explore everything about sex and new positions or others that you want to test. You can start from a dice game or a box set or even intimate mission games.

Using objects

For shake up the sexual routine a little within your couple , you should not hesitate to use certain sexual objects . These are generally accessories that you can use to prepare yourself for very intense lovemaking. They are therefore much more used for push the excitement to the climax during foreplay .

The special thing about these sex objects is that they allow you to discover and explore all the erogenous zones of your body . There are a wide range of them, but the most important thing is to agree with your partner on what suits you.

To tie up or to be tied up

When this trick is implemented on a perfect consent between the two partners, it constitutes an enormous source of excitement. You take complete control of your partner's pleasure when you tie him up. In absolute confidence, it allows you to invade him with pleasure while you also get it at will. To engage in it, you must provide handcuffs or make circumstantial use of a scarf .

Likewise, if you are the one who is attached, complete loss of control over the build-up of excitement gives you a mind-blowing pleasure. It is a way of getting given in bed by your partner. You experience a form of submission that has nothing to do with social submission. It is rather a way to surrender to pleasure and enjoy it to the fullest.

This practice, although producing strong sensations, should not be taken as a sexual habit. For its effectiveness in revitalizing your couple's sex life, you need to adopt it periodically. Alternate it with other techniques and regularly try new experiences in bed guarantees its success.

Group sex

Group sex, despite its delicacy, is becoming more and more a practice enjoyed by many couples . While men fantasize about a HFF (Man, Woman, Woman) threesome, women want to experience the HHF trio. This experience should clearly be considered on mutual consent between your partner and you.

Agreeing on the third or other characters to associate with your group sex moment is an important step. Their consents are as important as yours . It's an experience that makes you want to lift the veil on libertinism.

Anal sex

Anal sex is a pretty exciting option to bring novelty to your couple's sex life. Anal penetration can be a source of intense pleasure but this pleasure may not be felt by both partners. To experience it and enjoy it mutually, it is important to be both consenting.

It's a clever way to spice up your sex life. It's the subject of much controversy regarding its possible painful, dirty or violent nature. But The most important thing is whether it gives pleasure. to your partner as much as to you.

You now have all the cards in hand to try new experiences! And to know how to bring up the idea of ​​using a vibrator for two, we give you all our advice here . 😍