Using a vibrator as a couple

Using a vibrator for couples can be very interesting in order to experience sex differently, to discover a new type of pleasure and new sensations to share as a duo! But this subject can turn out to be taboo if your partner believes that sex toys are only used in cases of frustration or lack of performance on their part. It's important to know how to approach the subject with him or her to let go of preconceived ideas about sex and know how to pleasure each other with an object . Anything that can bring additional pleasure to your sexuality should be welcome. So stop the clichés about using sex toys as a couple, communicate with your partner about this sexual desire, try it together and you will see that you will enjoy it! 🤗

Here is a short guide to correctly understand the subject and understand what a vibrator can bring to your relationship ❤️

1. How to bring up the subject of using a vibrator within your relationship?
2. Why the vibrator can spice up your sex life?
3. Which vibrator to choose for use as a couple and how to use it? Our advice Coco
4. What positions to have pleasure for two with a vibrator?

1- How to bring up the subject of using a vibrator within your relationship?

You want to integrate a vibrator into your sexual relations , but this subject can be complicated to discuss with your partner. “I feel less wanted”; “The vibrator will replace me.” It is normal to fear the other's reaction when initiating this discussion! However, your spouse does not have to worry. Share your desire with him before taking action to purchase. Communication is always the pillar of all your intimate relationships. 🙌 Don’t think too much about how to approach the subject; delicately ask the question by presenting the vibrator as a game ! Maybe he/she was already thinking about it or likes the idea! But some people may be reluctant at first. Don't try to convince him, because consent is the most important thing to respect and desire cannot be negotiated! Simply explain to him why you want renewal in your sex life , what would be the benefits for your relationship of integrating a vibrator. Remember that an object will never replace a human body; a vibrator is a friend, a game and is very far from competing or being the enemy of a woman or a man. A vibrator is a plus in your relationship, it can allow you and your partner to explore a new type of pleasure, increase excitement and thus break the routine of your sexual relations. 🤝

2- Why can the vibrator spice up your sex life?

There are several reasons why you might want to use an object during sex . First of all, they bring something new to your relationship and allow you to discover new sensations together . They can easily integrate into your erotic games (cards, couple pornography films , board games, etc.) by becoming your new partner. 😉 In fact, vibrators will stimulate the libido, help you to increase awareness of your erogenous zones, and will allow you to discover a new pleasure thanks to the intense vibrations they possess.

It is well known that sexual intercourse mixes passion and love at the beginning of a romantic relationship. Pillow talks after sex nourish your bond. These moments should not be neglected, they are certainly the most intimate of the couple. This is the moment when the trust and closeness between you is at its peak. This is why preserving the flame allows you to nourish this intimacy between you. It is indeed easy to fall into a routine as a couple and these discussions can become less and less magical, in the same way as when you make love, despite the strong bond that unites you.

Spicing up your sex life allows you to flourish, discover new things and maintain or even increase your sexual pleasure! You can start by using a vibrator alone in order to understand the object and re-discover your female body. You will thus nourish your libido , your fantasies and new pleasures . It may then be easier to guide your partner to explore these; by discovering things alone, you open new doors to your sexual relationships! 🥰

If your partner was reluctant during your discussion on the subject, you can encourage them to use a sex toy too! He/she will then appropriate the object in complete privacy, going at their own pace, without feeling any pressure. Indeed, individual masturbation is still quite taboo when a person is in a relationship. However, it is very important to find yourself with yourself to understand your own functioning; your partner will then understand your desires more easily because you will have less difficulty communicating about them! Masturbate alone at first to allow you to explore your body, to know your pleasure in order to guide your partner afterwards.❤️

3- Which vibrator to choose for use as a couple and how to use it?

The Rabbit is a vibrator that can stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time . One part penetrates the vagina, the other surrounds the clitoris to increase the pleasure tenfold. This vibrating sex toy will fill you with pleasure when you know how to use it 😏!

Coco is specially designed to allow a perfect fit between the two of you. During heterosexual intercourse, you can introduce the vibrating part into the vagina; your partner will also feel the vibrations on his penis and will enjoy closer stimulation if you practice penetration. On the contrary, the woman can stimulate her clitoris with the suction part and vibrate the object on the glans / frenulum of the penis at the same time.💓 In the same way, penetration with the partner remains possible! The intimate moments you share with Coco will be unforgettable for you and your partner!

This vibrator is perfect for intimate relationships between women; one stimulates her clitoris, the other is placed above to penetrate the toy into the vagina 😌

The vibrating egg , ovoid in appearance, is inserted into the vagina. It is advisable to coat it with lubricant before using it to avoid friction. After inserting the egg into your genitals, the remote control controls the vibrator. Leave the remote to your partner to give them control and the vibrating egg will do the rest!

The vibrating rings are inserted directly around the penis and help maintain the man's erection. During penetration, the vibrations will intensify the stimulation of both partners, enough to roar with pleasure!

Stimulating a man's prostate can be a real source of pleasure! This includes having to penetrate it: an anal plug or a vibrating belt to integrate your toy will help you give new pleasure to your partner 😌

You can also use a clitoris sucker to complement the stimulation(s) provided by your partner.

Our advice Coco

Coco is a partner who adapts very well to your lovemaking! It will already help you understand your solo preferences . Then, with your partner, you can use it in different ways; spooned, doggy style or simply missionary it adapts to many positions! Your partner can run it over your entire body.🤔 Don't forget that it vibrates; men can therefore very well find what they are looking for by stimulating the glans, the frenulum of the penis and discovering unsuspected pleasures 🤯

4 - What positions can you enjoy for two with a vibrator?

Positions play a role in your pleasure during sex and the intensity of orgasms when achieved. ⚠️ We can never point it out enough, but orgasm should NEVER be the objective of your moment of pleasure alone or as a couple.

Here are some positions to try with a vibrator ☺️

Andromache - The belly dancer

For an unexpected use of the vibrator, put a vibrator between you during Andromache. A vibrating ring around the phallus or a small vibrator on both clitorises will be highly enjoyable.

Doggy style

Stimulate your clitoris during doggy style with a vibrator or nozzle while stimulating your chest for an explosion of pleasure 😉

The 69

Lying on your side, vary between licks, caresses and vibrations. In this position, each with their gadget in hand, you can let spontaneous inspiration work miracles.

On the back: knees bent towards the chest

In this position, the partner stimulates your G-spot with one or two index fingers, while their other hand manipulates the vibrator on the glans of your clitoris .

You can reproduce this position alone in order to discover your pleasure and find your G-spot and understand the movements you need to simultaneously stimulate the G-spot and the clitoris . Moreover, Coco was designed especially for this purpose 👍 It has a suction part for the clitoris and bends (in order to adapt to the vast majority of body types) to penetrate the vagina at the same time thanks to its vibrating head !

In conclusion, using a vibrator as a couple allows you to discover yourself, your partner and spice up your sexual relations while having fun. Let yourself discover the pleasure provided by these hand-in-hand vibrators!