Everything you need to know about anal plugs

The anal plug , also called butt plug , is still surrounded by mystery, taboos and misconceptions.
However, it is a great ally for women who want to explore new sensations, learn to know their bodies better and enrich their sex life , alone or with a partner.

The anal plug has established itself as one of the most powerful and liberating accessories in the world of sexuality. Its purpose? To offer unique anal stimulation , intense sensations, and sometimes orgasms of unexpected depth. Whether you're a woman, a man, a curious beginner, or a seasoned explorer, the anal plug sparks discovery and desire.

In this article, we tell you absolutely everything about the anal plug : what it is used for, who it is intended for, how to use it, how to choose it (material, size, price, delivery…), what its benefits are, its variations (jeweled plug, vibrating plug, plugs for men…) and above all: how to integrate it into a gentle, conscious and risk-free sexual practice.

Ladies, if you're wondering how to incorporate an anal plug into your intimate life , you've come to the right place!

The ABCs of the anal plug

What is an anal plug?

An anal plug (or butt plug ) is a sex toy designed to be inserted into the anus to provide pleasurable and arousal sensations . It is most often unisex (usable by both women and men) but is sometimes specifically designed to stimulate the male prostate by being slightly curved.

Unlike other toys , the plug is not necessarily designed to move back and forth, but rather to stimulate an erogenous zone while remaining in place and/or intensify sensations during penetration.

It stays in place thanks to its widened base (sometimes adorned with a special design or jewel), which guarantees safe use .

The characteristics of an anal plug

There are plenty of anal plugs on the market; here's how to recognize a good toy:

• Often a conical shape : for gradual insertion

• A wide base : to prevent the toy from being “absorbed”

• A soft and hygienic material : usually medical-grade silicone or metal

• A variety of sizes : from standard anal plugs to XXL plugs

• Multiple options : vibrating, connected, remote-controlled, jewelry, colorful (black, pink, with crystal…)
  
  

The anal plug is both a pleasure stimulator and a toy for exploring the body . It can be used during foreplay, during sexual intercourse, or even worn discreetly on a daily basis.

Why use an anal plug?

Using an anal plug isn't just about trying out a new sex toy; it's about discovering a new erogenous zone, opening up a world of often unprecedented sensations, and breaking free from "established" sexual scenarios. Here are the concrete benefits of anal play with plugs:

1. Access to new sensations

The anal area is extremely rich in nerve endings. When used gently with a suitable lubricant , an anal plug provides deep stimulation that spreads throughout the pelvis. This can intensify sensations in the vagina or penis, depending on your anatomy.

2. Intensification of orgasms

For many, wearing an anal plug during masturbation or vaginal intercourse intensifies orgasm tenfold. In men, some plugs stimulate the prostate, an organ sometimes referred to as the "male G-spot".

3. Preparation for anal penetration

The anal plug is also a great tool for getting used to anal penetration . It prepares the sphincter muscles, allows you to become familiar with the sensations, and facilitates a gradual approach.

4. Couple games and fantasies

Worn during a romantic dinner, remotely controlled, integrated into a domination game… The anal plug opens the door to an infinite number of fantasies and sexual practices to experience as a couple.

Which anal plug should you choose? Sizes, materials, prices and options

The market for anal plugs offers a wide variety of options. Whether you're looking for a standard plug, a jeweled plug, a vibrating plug with a remote control, or a metal toy for a "cooling" effect, there's bound to be a model that's right for you. Here are the criteria to consider.

1. Size of the anal plug

Choosing the right size is crucial. Too big, and you risk hurting yourself. Too small, and you won't get the sensations you're looking for.

• Beginner: choose a slim size (2-3 cm in diameter) and short (6-8 cm long).

• Intermediate: opt for a diameter around 3.5 cm.

• Confirmed: choose a diameter greater than 4 cm, or a heavy plug.
  
  

Some brands offer individual packs or standard sets in three different sizes for a smooth progression. Product pages usually specify whether the plug is sold individually, in a pack, or in a standard size.

2. Material: silicone, metal or glass?

Anal plugs are available in different materials:

• Medical-grade silicone : soft, flexible, and easy to clean. Ideal for beginners and for ensuring optimal hygiene.

• Metal (stainless steel) : heavy, intense, cold, perfect for prolonged wear or deep stimulation.

• Glass or wood : aesthetic and sensory, but more fragile and risky in case of breakage or poor quality.
  
  

Metal plugs are often available in jewelry-like versions (crystal, rose gold, black, etc.) for a guaranteed wow effect.

3. Price of an anal plug

The price of an anal plug varies depending on:

• the material,

• the options (vibration, connectivity, remote control…),

• the design (jewelry, shape, finish),

• the type of toy (simple use or for prostate stimulation).
  
  

A vibrating anal plug with a remote control often costs more than a "simple" model, but this is not necessarily synonymous with effectiveness.

4. Delivery and discretion

Choose a brand that offers delivery:

• discreet (no sender mentioned on the package),

• fast,

• sometimes offered depending on the purchase price.
  
  

Anal plugs and other sex toys: a winning combination

You can easily combine your anal plug with other sex toys, such as vibrators (clitoral or internal), either alternately or simultaneously, to enhance pleasure . For men, a prostate stimulator can also be a real asset during intercourse.

Some toys are even designed to be integrated into games for two: a jeweled plug worn during intercourse, a vibrating plug triggered by a partner, etc.

How to use an anal plug safely?

Using an anal plug is relatively simple, but to make the experience enjoyable, here are the golden rules.

1. Lubricant: essential with an anal plug

The anus does not produce natural lubrication . It is therefore essential to use lubricant generously each time.

• With a silicone plug: water-based lubricant only

• With a metal plug: all types of lubricants are compatible.

Feel free to reapply several times during use if necessary.

2. Hygiene: we keep it clean

Clean your toy before and after each session:

• Wash the anal plug with warm water and mild soap.

• You can use a special sex toy cleaner such as cleaning foam, for example.

• If you are using a plug with two partners: use a condom or clean between each partner

Never pass a plug from the anus to the vagina or from the vagina to the anus without washing it.


As with vaginal intercourse, anal sex carries a risk of STI transmission. Yes, even though we're talking about a toy and not a penis, certain bacteria or viruses can be transmitted through mucous membranes. So, take precautions, because health is priceless!

3. Relaxation and integration

Take your time. Massage the anal area , get into a comfortable position, and gently insert the plug . The area should be stimulated, relaxed, and lubricated before penetration.

Listen to your body: there should be no pain .

Anal plug: mistakes to avoid

Are you tempted by an anal plug? Here are some common mistakes to avoid:

• using a plug without a base (risk of it slipping up into the anus),

• force insertion,

• Forget the lubricant.

• failure to comply with hygiene rules,

• Don't think that this defines your sexual orientation or that of your partner. Anal plugs are for all women, men, and people curious to explore their sexuality, regardless of their orientation.
  

Anal plugs & fantasies: between secrecy and power

An anal plug is not just a sex toy. It's an invitation to play , to discover oneself, to experience sensation in a different way.

It can be discreet (black, small), connected (to a remote control or a mobile app) or even decorative (with jewelry or “hanging tail”, crystal, in pink, yellow, red, blue…).

Beyond being a mere object, a plug can reflect your personality or state of mind. If you own several, switch between different models depending on your mood or current situation. The plug then becomes a tool for self-expression, boosting self-esteem and self-confidence.

Special anal plug express FAQ

Can you wear an anal plug for a long time?

Yes, if it's the right size and you're comfortable with it. Many plugs are designed for extended wear.

Does an anal plug cause an orgasm?

Not on its own, but it intensifies orgasms (especially if it stimulates the prostate or is combined with a vibrator).

Which plug is best for men?

A special prostate anal plug, often curved and narrower, sometimes vibrating. But most plugs can be used by both men and women.

Which butt toy model should I choose?

Start simple: small, silicone, with a wide base, and non-vibrating. Opt for a simple, unconnected, thin, "natural" plug. Then, vary according to your preferences: jewelry, crystal, vibrating, black, metal, etc. Most often, simple models are suitable for both women and men.

What is the average price of an anal plug?

From €10 to €150 depending on the options. Simple, basic toys will logically be more affordable! Vibrators (with motors or advanced options) will be more expensive. Compare product pages, check shipping costs and delivery times, and choose according to your budget. Individual toys will generally be cheaper to buy than sets. Keep in mind that price is never completely unrelated to quality. Especially for this area: pay close attention to the brand of toys you choose!

Using an anal plug is neither a fringe practice, nor a shameful one, nor an "extreme" practice. It can be a wonderful tool for self-affirmation and self-exploration.

These types of toys can open the door to new sensations and a liberated, uninhibited, and inclusive sexuality . That's exactly what we love!

The added bonus: their price is generally quite affordable for a basic model!

At Puissante, we say it loud and clear: a woman's pleasure is legitimate , your body deserves to be listened to, and you have the right to explore what feels good to you, without ever having to justify yourself.

So if the urge is tempting you… why not start slowly, with an anal plug suited to your desires and skill level? You might be surprised to discover how much this pleasure accessory can change the game.

Key points to remember:

• Your pleasure is legitimate.

• Your sexuality is beautiful.

• The anal plug can be a delightful extension of this.