What to masturbate with?

Masturbation is a very beneficial practice for both women and men. Joy of life, emotional balance, better health…the list of benefits is long. 

If you think this practice is solitary, think again; as Woody Allen would say, " Don't speak ill of masturbation . It's the surest way to make love with someone you love. " It's worth noting that if you masturbate with your partner, especially using dedicated toys, sexual inspiration and arousal come more easily.

Whether you're single or in a relationship, embrace masturbation to enjoy all its benefits. But you might not know how. What should you use to masturbate?

If you're wondering, the following minutes of reading will shed some light on the subject and give you ideas about objects you can use for masturbation. We've put together a guide full of surprises and insights. 

Masturbating with your fingers, what technique?

Nature is so generous that it has provided us with something to masturbate with : our fingers . The fingertips have a soft, supple texture that, when properly moistened or lubricated, allows them to gently caress the clitoris . It's a basic but proven technique for finally reaching orgasm alone, or with your partner.

You can also stimulate the G-spot (located at the entrance of the vagina) with your fingertips for great pleasure and excitement . The G-spot is a ridged area that men can also masturbate with their fingers, penis, or sex toys . If needed, to make masturbation more enjoyable, don't hesitate to use lubricant .

Your fingers are therefore a perfect way to explore your intimacy and bodily sensations. Whether you're a man or a woman, use your fingers to give pleasure or spice up your weekends!

Masturbating with household objects

Take a look at the objects around you at home; you're bound to find something to masturbate to. And that's fortunate, because female masturbation is known for its health benefits !

1. The shower head: your best ally in masturbation

Put down that cucumber or banana and go to your bathroom instead! In the bathroom, water, and more specifically the shower head, is one of the objects that allows women to stimulate their clitoris for pleasure, and even to have an orgasm .

In the shower, a little imagination is all it takes to find ways to stimulate yourself. Use the water jet at varying speeds to pamper your clitoris, play with the water pressure and/or temperature. And don't forget that the gentle gliding of the showerhead between your labia creates unique sensations and arousal!

2. The electric toothbrush, to be used with caution

Still in the bathroom, while the electric toothbrush can provide excitement and sexual pleasure to the woman, it is not the best option since it can injure the clitoris, which is very sensitive.

Why use an object meant to provide pleasure if it risks sexual injury? The clitoris, vagina, and vulva are very sensitive parts of a woman's body that need protection. Furthermore, if it's already been used orally, there's a high risk of introducing bacteria into the vagina . A toothbrush is therefore not the best idea for masturbation. So what should you use instead?

3. Is it okay to use phone vibration to masturbate?

If you have not yet experienced the pleasure of masturbating with a sex toy, such as a vibrator, your mobile phone will be a source of enjoyment for you.

Put it in vibrating mode and slide it over your clitoris ; gently, then pressing according to your sensations and the intensification of desire.

Let yourself go, let your imagination run wild and let the excitement build.

4. Masturbating with a chair: our tutorial

Have you thought about your chair ? Yes, it can be your perfect ally for your "masturbation" session. Before indulging in your intimate moment, just make sure the seat is perfectly smooth.

Straddle your chair, naked or in your panties, chest against the backrest, and let the excitement take over . Arch your hips so you can make wide, sweeping movements. Your clitoris and vulva will receive gentle caresses: orgasm awaits!

5. The pillow: an essential for masturbation

A pillow as a sex toy ? Clearly, your environment offers you plenty of opportunities to masturbate.

Take your best cushion Position it upright and straddle it, facing the back of your bed. Make rhythmic back-and-forth movements to stimulate the clitoris and reach orgasm .

Important reminder : Be aware of the dangers household objects can pose to your privacy! How many people end up in the emergency room because of improvised sex toys? Choose an object designed exclusively for masturbation for reasons of hygiene , safety, and pleasure.

Is investing in a sex toy worth it?

Sex toys are objects designed for your pleasure and intimate moments. They include:

• vibrators,

• Clitoral stimulators, which send out waves to excite the clitoris,

• Curved sex toys, which are specifically designed for G-spot stimulation,

• The rabbit vibrator consists of a part that ensures vaginal penetration and two ears that adhere to the vulva to stimulate the labia and clitoris: pleasure is multiplied tenfold.

• Anal plugs are designed for anal pleasure.

• There are many more, such as the vibrating egg for example.

If you had to choose just one masturbator for the rest of your life, we'd recommend Coco . It's the perfect option for enjoying suction and vibration at intensities that suit you. But of course, everyone has their own preferences and sensitivities. Take the time to explore and discover what you truly enjoy.

"What should I use to masturbate?" is a very common question among women. But in fact, you're spoiled for choice. You just need to open your eyes a little, be curious, and take the plunge. You won't regret it: masturbation is a fantastic way to boost your physical and mental well-being.