How to masturbate with an object?

Having fun is not always as easy as you think. Even less so giving yourself pleasure by practicing masturbation with objects . For women, especially those who have never masturbated with an object, the first gesture can be awkward. The goal is to explore and know the pleasures of your body in a concrete way, you must know how to use a sex toy such as the vibrator to achieve this.

Exciting gestures on the clitoris, in the shower with jets of water or with your fingers, the main thing is that you listen to your body's reactions. This guide gives you all the tips and tricks to really get off if you are using a sex toy for the first time. Focus!

What positions should you take during masturbation?

For most women, masturbation is simply lying on their back , using a sex toy or their fingers . However, just like having sex with a partner, masturbation can be done in many positions . Here are some examples:

Lying in a bathtub or squatting in the shower

In your bathtub , run some water and immerse yourself in it. First, after lying down, put your fingers on your clitoris . Go slowly and much more safely. All you have to do is increase the rhythm of your movements as you feel pleasure. To make it easier to reach your erogenous zone, don't hesitate to raise one leg on the edge of the bathtub! 🛀

Better yet, if you prefer to do it in shower mode, use the shower head . Squat down and position the shower head on your penis and especially as close as possible to your clitoris. At this stage, let the water jet do its job. Vary the movements on your clitoris and the degree of pleasure by using your fingers. You can also play with the temperature of the water (be careful not to burn yourself!)

Masturbate standing up

Standing masturbation is a possibility, especially with a suitable sex toy . It all starts with intimate caresses . Touch yourself as much as possible, with caresses ( breasts , upper and inner thighs, lower abdomen, etc.) As soon as you feel pleasant sensations, you can caress your vulva in its entirety, or even penetrate yourself if the urge takes you.

This is the perfect time for your sex toy (vibrator) to kick in. Move it around and tickle your clitoris . Listen to your desires; you can stay there or decide to stimulate yourself through penetration. In this position you can feel something more than you are given to feel when lying down.

According to sexologists Masters & Johnson, an orgasm releases tension. To make it more intense, the "I'm almost there" phase should be prolonged.

To do this: get closer to pleasure, but release the pressure by touching less erogenous zones, repeating the action for as long as possible. The result: an explosion of pleasure!

Lying under the duvet

To do this in this case, lie on your stomach . Place your pillow under your pelvis. You don't need any other objects here. Make gentle back and forth movements before increasing the pace as soon as the level of excitement rises . Nothing like it to start your day off right! This is what we call "humping", a practice widely used by women.

On your back, legs apart on the couch or sofa

Once on your back, fold your legs, lift them up and spread them wide. Start with the caresses. Go at your own pace so that you feel the excitement. Breasts, thighs, lips, lower abdomen, don't deprive yourself of any touching on your erogenous zones if you feel the urge. Then, give your clitoris the most beautiful sensations by using a vibrator .

If you don't have a couch, the sofa can also work well. On a sofa, get comfortable on your knees. Caress your clitoris. If you decide to let your fingers penetrate you tenderly, don't forget to lean your body forward. This is a great way to stimulate your G-spot .

Seated

To get pleasure from sitting , choose a chair that is sturdy enough. But avoid wooden ones. All you have to do is sit properly. Spread your legs, move back and forth from left to right, from bottom to top.

How to use an object to masturbate: the case of the vibrator

With sex becoming less of a taboo subject, we can now talk about sex toys without really feeling uncomfortable. While using objects during sexual intercourse or masturbation is likely to maximize the pleasure felt, it should be emphasized that you have to learn how to use them.

The first thing you need to think about when deciding to use an object or objects to masturbate is the different ways you can use them on your body.

Go exploring first

Test out several ways of doing things, several rhythms to discover what gives you the most pleasure . It is only through testing that you will succeed in refining your technique and gaining more confidence in yourself.

With a vibrator, special attention is required to enjoy it. And this is because it is a manual tool. Not all bodies are the same.

So, depending on your body constitution, some actions can cause irritation rather than pleasure. This is the case, for example, when the speed is too high. In these cases, reduce the speed and move on to another part of the body.

Try other body parts

A popular practice is that the vibrator is applied directly to the clitoris . But this is not necessarily the case. Your sex toy can provide you with the pleasure you are looking for in other parts of your anatomy. The neck, for example, is very sensitive to touch.

Touch the clitoris indirectly

It is not recommended to stimulate your clitoris at first. Try to reach it indirectly by putting the vibrator above and why not on the side. You will get similar sensations. So you basically understand that it is first a question of discovering yourself. So take your time.

Combine sex toys and fantasy

Apart from the vibrator and any other object with which you can masturbate, there are fantasies . Give free rein to your fantasies, your sensual ideas . When the excitement rises, only then can the machine come into action.

What household objects can you masturbate with?

If you don't have one of the super gadgets, you can also improvise using homemade objects . Because in fact, female masturbation techniques offer many possibilities to women who want to give themselves pleasure alone . You can do it with:

• A soft chair
• A pillow
• An object that vibrates
• The shower head

A soft chair

A comfy chair can quickly get you going if you know how. Stand facing the seat of the chair and spread your legs. Make sure your clitoris is touching the back of the chair. All you have to do is start moving in and out. Don't forget to put a towel on the chair before you start.

A pillow

Straddle a pillow and move back and forth. Your clitoris will be stimulated and you will feel wonderful sensations.

You can also create a "pillow mountain", sit on it, and start circular movements, or back and forth. This will gradually increase your excitement and will pamper your clitoris for your greatest pleasure!

The shower head

There's nothing like a jet of warm water to stimulate your clitoris . While you're bathing, let the water run and then place the diaper sprayer under your vulva. Don't hesitate to increase the water pressure depending on how excited you are. If you're in a relationship, ask your partner to help you handle the sprayer.

The electric toothbrush

And yes! Although it may seem unusual,

The toothbrush (or rather its vibrating handle) can be a source of pleasure. It can be used during your intimate moments, by vibration on the clitoris, or by penetration.

For this practice you can wrap your toothbrush in a clean cotton cloth, or put a condom on it and add lubricant, it's your choice!

Which sex toys to buy?

There are many of them, in various sizes and for all tastes. Here is a small list of those that you will not regret buying.

The magic wand

If you are one of those women who hardly feel excitement in the vulva, this Wand sex toy is for you . Indeed, it is huge enough to cause intense sensations. Previously, it was used for physiotherapy training.

Suction stimulators

It is a sex toy that works on the principle of micro-suction . It is so effective that it is now called the orgasm machine.

As you will have understood by now, the sex toy is not limited only to the vibrator. The clitoris sucker has the particularity of provoking excitement by suction and vibrations on the clitoris. To use it, you will not have much trouble!

It is a sex toy rechargeable via a USB cable that promises you 4 hours of autonomy. In addition, cleaning is quite easy. And this is because of its suction capacity.

We have designed at Puissante Coco which allows suction with ten different modes; seven are intended for intensity, and the next three for random modes! In addition to stimulation dedicated to sucking the clitoris and labia, you can choose whether or not to penetrate thanks to Coco's vibrating head. Foldable, it adapts to almost all body types and thus allows double stimulation if you wish!

How to choose a vibrating sex toy?

To choose your sex toy you must take into account a certain number of criteria which are as follows:

• the vibration;
• ergonomics;
• the mode of use;
• the material used for manufacturing;
• the waterproof side;
• autonomy;
• the price;
• the opinions.

You need to analyze all these aspects to make sure you buy the right equipment to give you pleasure.

What are the different models of vibrator that exist?

There are several vibrator formats available for both women and men. These are the vibrators:

• Classic external clitoral stimulators : Equipped with a small motor, these vibrators are perfect for discovering yourself.
• Internal stimulators : More elongated in shape, these vibrators are used to penetrate and stimulate the vaginal walls. They are usually vibrating with different variations and can also allow you to stimulate the G-zone.
• Doubles called “Rabbits” : The rabbit allows both external and internal stimulation.
• Anal Orientation : If you enjoy anal penetration, some sex toys are made for this type of use. They work just as well for women as for men.

Your choice will be conditioned by your sexual practices, your desires and your needs in this area.

In short, remember that female masturbation offers a myriad of possibilities. If you have never tried it with an object, you now have a large number of examples and situations in which you can explore your sexuality, your sensitivities.

The body is a labyrinth that you will enjoy discovering by practicing masturbation with an object. Remember that the most important thing is to know your body and identify the practice that makes you most comfortable.

Using sex toys does not exclude your partner. Do not hesitate to use them in your relationship if you feel like it. It is up to you to act now.