Why have a vibrator?

The desire to explore one's body, to venture into the discovery of new pleasures, to learn to touch oneself, to love oneself… The reasons that lead many people to buy their first vibrator can be diverse and varied. Often, there's a kind of hesitation, a fear that a high-tech object could give us pleasure (or is it a fear of the unknown?). Yet, acquiring a vibrator can help you in many ways. Let us explain!

Buying a vibrator: how to take the plunge?

Everything we've heard about vibrators

The entire Puissante team was present at the Delta Festival to talk about Coco , the brand, our values… When we talk about sexuality , the topics of conversation feed on themselves.

Between the "Incredible!", the "I need one!", and the laughter at the sight of our stand, it was interesting to see the different approaches to vibrators. "I don't need that" (referring to Coco) was one of the comments we heard.

Buying a vibrator doesn't necessarily fulfill a need. It's a new, different experience , and that's what's fun about it! It's like eating the same food your whole life, and then suddenly tasting something completely different.

And let's be honest, humans can't replicate the vibration or suction of a vibrator. It's simply impossible. So, in fact, there's something completely different, whether you like it or not, that provides sensations you can't find anywhere else , with no side effects other than a glow , increased confidence, and a feeling of total well-being . It could be really fun to try, right?!

Rediscover your body and clitoris with the help of a vibrator

Many women have taken time to discover their own bodies.

Note well: the clitoris is the organ solely dedicated to pleasure. Composed of a glans on its external part and branches internally, our best friend contains at least 8,000 nerve endings . Completely ignored during sex education classes at school and in mainstream pornography , it's the great forgotten element of sexual relations for many. Yes, to know how to stimulate your clitoris , you first need to know it exists.

However, many people claim to have discovered this organ while browsing social media such as Twitter or Instagram. "But madam, I can't masturbate, I don't have a penis, that's a boy thing," a schoolteacher once heard.

The first rule of masturbation is to talk about it!

Overcoming taboos related to sexuality through sex toys

Taboos surrounding sexuality create guilt and prevent adolescent girls, young women, and adults from experiencing pleasure alone . Even the first little caress on the pillow, however natural it may seem, is quickly interrupted by shame.

Discovering the clitoris through Twitter, questions arise among girlfriends: "yeah I saw that too, but it doesn't work, it doesn't do anything for me" "me neither" "female orgasm is just a legend" "I give up" "maybe I'm vaginal and not clitoral."

These last terms send shivers down our spines. No woman is simply vaginal or clitoral , since female pleasure and orgasms are triggered by internal and/or external clitoral stimulation! Differentiating between the two amounts to supporting Freud's theory that only so-called "vaginal" women are "mature."

In the shower: discover the massage mode. Wow. We don't care about the rules, we quickly become addicted to this shower head. But it uses way too much water; how can we replace it? Choosing a clitoral stimulator is a first step, and those that allow clitoral suction are the best possible choice for gently yet intensely stimulating the clitoris .

Switching from the showerhead to an object can be quite daunting, especially in the moment: suddenly you have a sex toy in your hands and then… you don't know what you're going to do with it, yeah, it's a little scary. The first few moments are surprising, unsettling, but enjoyable. Stop. Let's try again. Hey, that's cool. Try it again. WOW, wow. You never get tired of it.

Try it and enjoy.

Self-love, self-confidence, sexual esteem, well-being: why masturbation empowers women

What is a powerful woman?

A powerful woman means many things. We immediately think of inspiring and famous women . But ultimately, the powerful woman is you .

You, who dare to be who you are, who get up every morning with your desires, your ambitions, your obligations. It's that young mother who just gave birth, that woman who's going back to school at 50, the one who's 70 and has her own past, her own story, it's that entrepreneur. The powerful woman is a single woman, a woman in a relationship, married, a mother, alone. All women are powerful, but not all of them are aware of it.

Nourishing one's self-esteem through sexuality

Self-love is essential for a good life. Self-esteem is what we project to others; it's how others perceive us. Human beings' primary desire, though often unconscious, is to be loved by others. And that's precisely how we too easily forget ourselves.

Masturbation is directly linked to self-love; we make love to ourselves , we love ourselves. What is more beautiful on earth than love? A woman who has never masturbated in thirty years of her life buys a vibrator because she doesn't know how her body works . The opinions we receive every day speak for themselves; here is an example:

" I am very pleasantly surprised by Coco by Puissante. I am learning more about my body and giving myself moments of pleasure that are uniquely mine. I feel calm and powerful after using it. I am gaining confidence and pleasure is guaranteed!!! I love it and I recommend it! "

Taking time for yourself, getting to know yourself, and discovering yourself allows you to experience a profound sense of well-being. Being comfortable with yourself is the first step to feeling comfortable in your daily life, both professionally and personally. Feeling good about yourself means having confidence, becoming a self-assured person , knowing what you want, in bed as in life. Because yes, knowing your body on your own also means being able to enjoy sex with a partner or more. It also means learning to say NO, knowing your own limits, and taking care of yourself.

Discover new sensations thanks to the vibrator

Using a vibrator as a couple: your experiences

If you're in a relationship, there's nothing wrong with masturbating ! Solo masturbation, when we dedicate our intimacy to just one person, can be quite taboo within couples. Just as if you were single, taking time for yourself with a partner is very important for discovering your own pleasure.

These evolve throughout your life! Continuing to explore your sensations is essential for you, and can be beneficial to your sex life as a couple ! It will indeed be easier for you to tell your partner what gives you pleasure.

And a vibrator fits perfectly into your relationship with a partner ! While many men see vibrators as a "competitor," this couldn't be further from the truth; a vibrator is more like a friend, a new partner to use alone or with a partner (or more)! Using it allows you to flourish and discover new things!

" It was so cool, I tested it alone and then with my boyfriend. Well, to be honest, with my boyfriend it was weird, I could tell he wasn't super comfortable, like there were three of us! But after getting 'acquainted' with Coco it was great! "

" For my part, I am very happy to have given this sex toy to my wife . It allows her to have fun when I am not there and to pleasure herself whenever she wants."

What I find very important, in my opinion, is that in the "hypocrisy of men," a woman isn't supposed to pleasure herself alone! Yet, every man masturbates... Why shouldn't a woman have the right to pleasure herself without us?!

What's more, this sex toy is simply magical when used with a partner! It perfectly complements our lovemaking.

Whether spooning, doggy style or simply missionary, it adapts to each of our positions.

I'm so happy for my wife that she has a new toy she can use with or without me. It gives me pleasure to know I'm making her happy! In my opinion, Coco embodies what love is !

And if you decide to acquire a Coco , even men can enjoy it!

" Hello everyone. I subscribed, bought, received, and tried "Coco," with great joy and subtle pleasure! I did it, of course, for my wife's pleasure, as she prefers me to use it on her. Not only is this sex toy a marvel of design, with a rare elegance in this category, and very easy to use, but also, and above all, remarkably effective! It's a great pleasure to own it and fully enjoy it. I used it on myself (glans and frenulum) and discovered unimaginable pleasures... So men can enjoy it too... "

Vibrators in a relationship: how to overcome reluctance?

There might be some apprehension about trying Coco as a couple , and that's normal. It's easy to think that if you need a vibrator in your relationship, it means something's not working out, that you're not satisfied with each other anymore. Or, conversely, that you're going to become one of those sexually "uninhibited" people (which, of course, you're not!). In short, several things might come to mind, and that's normal. The idea is to try to see it differently.

Ultimately, it's just an extra we try once to see . It's like trying a new recipe, a new dish, a new route to work that allows us to (re)discover a new way of making love.

Because there are a thousand and one ways to feel good as a couple!

If you'd like to incorporate a vibrator into your relationship , the first rule is to talk to your partner! Share your desire before buying one, as communication is always the cornerstone of any intimate relationship. Present the vibrator as a game ! Perhaps they've already thought about it or like the idea! If they're hesitant, don't try to convince them, because consent is the most important thing to respect, and desire is non-negotiable!

Simply explain to him why you want to acquire this type of product, and what the benefits would be for your relationship of incorporating a vibrator into your intimate moments . Remember that an object will never replace a human being; a vibrator is a friend, a toy, and is far from competing with or being anyone's enemy.

How to choose your first vibrator

There are thousands of sex toys available. Choosing your first vibrator isn't so easy.

We have a soft spot for the Coco , which allows you to experience internal and external stimulation according to your desires and preferences. It was specifically designed as a first sex toy, since its different intensities and modes will help you take your time and discover what truly pleases you.

Whatever vibrator you choose, assume that a sex toy costing between €10 and €30 will certainly do the trick for your pleasure… but will almost certainly ruin your health! Taking care of your vulva is very important in everyday life, and unfortunately, it's all too common to use harmful products daily. " Colorful vibrators are trendy. But it can quickly turn into a joke: especially when it's apple green and the color bleeds. Having grass-colored crotch for a week isn't fun. " Testimonial from Léopoldine, 27 years old

A sex toy made of medical-grade silicone is the safest option!

We recommend using it with lubricant ! Using lubricant during sex , whether alone or with others, significantly intensifies pleasure, penetration or not! A water-based lubricant is the best product to suit all your sexual encounters without any risk!

Ready to take the plunge? Give in to the vibrator adventure and discover new horizons of pleasure! Feel free to share your experience with us; we always love to hear from you.