How to consume pornography in an ethical way?

Whether we like it or not, the adult film industry is extremely lucrative and strongly influences how we construct our sexuality. Some people consider porn to be evil incarnate, capable of corrupting the innocence of our children, while others elevate it to the status of a true art form.

As you're starting to know, at Puissante, we appreciate nuance. When consumed consciously, adult films invite you to explore your desires and fantasies . That's why we're offering you a short guide to approaching porn ethically . Because yes, it is possible. 

Pornography is, above all, a grand spectacle.

Before you dive headfirst into the quest for content that whispers to your pleasure, let's go back to basics.

Porn is cinema, literally . There's a film crew, people in charge of makeup, costumes, and others who take care of the actors. There's a director and all the elements needed to produce a film.

Although this is due to a lack of sex education in schools, pornographic films rarely aim to teach us about human sexuality . They are there to create fantasy and titillate your desire.

The sex scenes are therefore exaggerated, as are the orgasms and the size of the protagonists' genitals. Do you really feel like jumping out of a burning helicopter and landing on a speeding train after watching Michael Bay's latest production? We hope not. The same goes for porn; you don't have to imitate what you watch for a more exciting life.

If you're up for the helicopter challenge, send us a photo anyway to hello@puissante.co.

Just like action movies, these films are a form of escapism and entertainment . Your sexual experiences should be explored personally and not dictated by porn. 

Choosing ethical pornography sites

To avoid oppressive stereotypes and respect the actresses, we recommend opting for ethical pornography platforms .

These sites generally ensure that everyone involved in the production is paid fairly. They also promote the most inclusive content possible, with videos that respect the integrity of sex workers and the image of women.

If you want to take your ethical approach even further, turn to paid streaming platforms .

These alternatives to mainstream porn offer a wider variety of content and access to personalized content. By exploring different platforms, you can discover healthy inspiration for a fulfilling sex life .

How can we talk about ethical erotic content without mentioning the queen of the movement, Erika Lust ?

With her platform Erika Lust Films , she offers ethical films and collaborative projects with sex workers. She employs intimacy coordinators on set and has a code of conduct for artists. It works with a wide diversity of backgrounds, sexualities, age groups and body types.

If you don't want to pay a subscription, you can simply rent a film from time to time. It's a way to actively participate in the development of a responsible industry.

Free websites remain an option, but be vigilant about the quality of the content offered. Many free sites with a strong online presence are involved in conflicts with intellectual property laws or publish content that violates human rights.

Adopting a holistic approach to ethical pleasure leads you to constantly re-evaluate your pornography consumption. By maintaining a critical perspective and supporting content that respects both performers and viewers, you move closer to a more humane sexuality. Instead of viewing it as a shameful activity, you can see it as an opportunity to explore your fantasies and desires responsibly and ethically . Ready to take the plunge together? Read our article on introducing pornography into your relationship.