5 100% self-love gift ideas

The days of meaningless gifts are over. Today, we want to give meaning, values, and joy. Yet, the choice is so vast that we struggle to find The One , the gift that will make all the difference. To help you prepare for Christmas or any other occasion worth celebrating, we're sharing self-love gift ideas to help you feel empowered.

1. A game to encourage open discussion about sexuality

What better way to break the ice and destroy the most stubborn taboos than with a game? The Discultons card game from Gender Game offers us the opportunity to start meaningful conversations, learn more about each other and about ourselves, and rediscover what we thought we already knew.

From masturbation to mental health, the questions cover the worlds of love, intimacy, and sexuality . Conceived by Léa from the Instagram account Merci Beaucul , the 70 cards are an invitation to confide and dare to be vulnerable with friends or a partner. 

2. Feminine and sexy art

If you're a regular reader of our newsletter, you know our passion for artists. This year, we've shared more than twenty of them with you in the weekly Powerful Break .

• Do you want to democratize erotic illustration ? Then we recommend you discover the works of Madame Dabi and Stella Polaris .

• If you would rather convey values of self-love, don't miss the drawings of Cécile Dormeau and Clémence Gouy.

• On the photography side, we love the aesthetic of artist Daria Nelson, which is both dark and glamorous. 

3. The ultimate naughty gift: a subscription to erotic audios

Erotic audio is an alternative to pornographic videos. It stimulates the imagination and allows you to be carried away by the sound.

Some erotic audios may come with a story and characters, others are a collection of sounds that build pleasure, and some formats are guided sessions for self-discovery while pleasuring oneself.

In France, Femtasy is the market leader with a subscription price of €7.99 per month. Le Son du Désir , with its perfect audio tracks for letting go, is also available starting at €5 per month.

For English speakers, Dipsea offers a complete universe and a user-friendly interface.

4. Erotic lingerie made in France

Lingerie is like a superhero outfit: it gives us superpowers to seduce ourselves and others while remaining hidden from everyone.

Having a beautiful piece of lingerie in our wardrobe allows us to access that powerful and sensual version of ourselves whenever we want.

We favour underwear made in France to be certain of the quality of the fabrics, the excellence of the know-how and above all the low ecological impact.

• Paloma Casile offers refined creations made in Paris. We love their rock 'n' roll edge and the playful use of elastic bands that adorn our curves with originality.

• The brand l'Ingénieuse makes luxury lingerie sets with scraps of Calais lace and Oeko Tex® Standard 100 certified tulle.

5. A sex toy to explore your pleasure

You thought we were going to forget about sex toys? The vibrator is THE ultimate self-love gift.

At Puissante, we are convinced that sex toys are the ideal ally to reconnect with your body and explore your pleasure.

Our very first vibrator, Coco, was designed to suit both beginners looking for their first toy and those who enjoy masturbation with vibrators. Tested by over 2,000 women, it's the absolute favorite in our shop. And we're incredibly proud of it.

We hope this list of self-love gift ideas has inspired you. Perhaps you'd like to pick something from this selection for yourself? We totally understand; we're guilty of it too. After all, treating yourself and your friends to beautiful gifts is also a wonderful form of self-love , isn't it? If you haven't found what you're looking for, you'll find our favorite books here , perfect for placing under the Christmas tree.