The days of unintended gifts that end up gathering dust on a shelf are over. Today, we want to offer meaning, values ​​and pleasure . Yet the choice is so vast that we have a hard time finding the One , the gift that will make all the difference. To help you prepare for Christmas or any other occasion worth celebrating, we share self-love gift ideas to help you feel powerful.

1. A game to free speech around sexuality

What better than a game to break the ice and destroy the most stubborn taboos ? The Let's Talk card game from Gender Game offers us to start meaningful conversations, learn more about others and yourself , and rediscover what you thought you already knew. 🍑

From masturbation to mental health, the questions cover the worlds of love, intimacy and sexuality. Thought by Léa from the Instagram account of conscious and positive sexualities Merci Beaucul , the 70 cards are an invitation to confide and to dare to be vulnerable between friends or with your partner.

2. Feminine and sexy art

If you are an assiduous reader of our newsletter , you know our taste for artists. This year, we've shared more than twenty of them with you in the weekly Power Pause .

Do you want to democratize erotic illustration? We therefore advise you to discover the works of Madame Dabi and Stella Polaris . 🎨

If you rather want to transmit the values ​​of self love , don't miss the drawings of Cécile Dormeau and Clémence Gouy.

On the photography side, we love the aesthetics of artist Daria Nelson , both dark and glamorous.

3. Ultimate naughty gift: a subscription to erotic audios

Erotic audio is an alternative to pornographic videos . It stimulates the imagination and allows you to let yourself be carried away by the sound .

Erotic audios may come only with a story and characters , others are a collection of sounds that elevate the pleasure and some formats are guided sessions to discover yourself while doing yourself good. 🎧

In France, Femtasy leads the market with a subscription at €7.99 per month. We also find Le Son du Désir and its perfect audios to let go from 5 € per month.

🇬🇧 For English speakers, Dipsea offers us a complete universe and a pleasant interface to use.

4. Erotic lingerie made in France

Lingerie is like a superheroine outfit : it gives us superpowers to seduce ourselves and others while remaining hidden from everyone. 💄

Having a beautiful piece of lingerie in your wardrobe allows us to access this powerful and sensual version of ourselves whenever we want.

We favor underwear made in France to be sure of the nobility of the fabrics, the excellence of the know-how and above all the low ecological impact . 🍃

Paloma Casile offers refined creations made in Paris. We love their spicy rock and the play of elastics that adorn our curves with originality.

The Ingénieuse brand makes luxury lingerie sets with Calais lace scraps and Oeko Tex Standard 100 certified tulle.

5. A sex toy to explore pleasure

Did you think we weren't going to mention vibrators as the ultimate self-love gift? Of course not ! 😉

At Puissant, we are convinced that the sex toy is the ideal ally to reconnect with your body and explore your pleasure.

Our very first Coco vibrator has been designed to suit beginners looking for a first toy as well as amateurs of masturbation with a vibrator. Tested by over 2,000 women, it's our store's favorite. And we are super proud of it 🤍

If you are looking for a smaller gift, our Christmas Ho Ho in collaboration with La Trentaine Tmtc is the perfect choice. Its pine green and its mini size make it an original and practical clitoris sucker . 🎄

We hope this list of self-love gift ideas has inspired you. Perhaps you even already want to offer our selection to yourself rather than to your loved ones? We completely understand, we are also guilty. After all, giving yourself beautiful presents as much as your friends is also a very nice form of self-love , isn't it? If you haven't found what you're looking for, you'll find our favorite books here, perfect to put under the tree. 🎁


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