The practice of female masturbation can serve different purposes. First of all, it allows you to explore or rediscover your body and to determine what gives pleasure or not. Then, female masturbation can serve as a valuable guide for communicating with one's sexual partner, in order to achieve greater fulfillment.
Today we are going to talk about a subject that is sometimes considered taboo: female masturbation and more specifically, how to achieve vaginal orgasm while masturbating. It is important to remember that masturbation is a natural, healthy act and beneficial for our physical and mental well-being.
So, let's put aside our inhibitions and discover together how to explore our body to live intense orgasmic experiences.
A. Create a conducive atmosphere
To start, choose a place where you feel comfortable and safe.
Whether it's your bedroom, the bathroom or even the living room, the important thing is to feel safe from prying eyes. Then, create a relaxing atmosphere by adjusting the lighting (candles, fairy lights, etc.), playing soft music or preparing some essential oils to scent the room. 🕯
B. Ensure good hygiene
Before you start, remember to wash your hands well and use clean accessories if you have them. This will avoid infections and other inconveniences.
II. The discovery of his body
A. Explore the different erogenous zones
It's time to discover your body!
Take the time to explore each erogenous zone: the breasts , nipples, clitoris, lips and the famous G-spot . Don't hesitate to vary the caresses , pressures and movements to identify what gives you the most pleasure .
B. Identify your preferences
Every woman is unique, and the same goes for our masturbation preferences. Some will like circular movements , while others will prefer back and forth . Learn to listen to your body to understand what works best for you.
III. Techniques to stimulate the G-spot
A. Using fingers
Now that you've explored your body, let's move on to G-spot stimulation.
To find it, insert a finger or two into your vagina and make a "come hither" motion. You should feel an area that is slightly bumpy and more sensitive than the rest of the vaginal wall. Once you've found it, try different stimulation techniques , like circling, thrusting, or squeezing.
B. Use accessories
If you prefer to use accessories, know that there are vibrators and dildos specially designed to stimulate the G-spot. Take the time to choose the accessory that suits you best for penetration and do not hesitate to ask for advice from a professional if necessary.
C. Use lubricant
We highly recommend using lubricant ! By using lubricant during sex, whether alone or with a partner, the pleasure is greatly amplified, whether you opt for penetration or not! A water-based lubricant is the best choice, because it adapts to all your sexual encounters without any risk! 💧
Our intimate gel is water-based, made in France, with lily extract and composed of 99.6% ingredients of natural origin, enough to intensify your pleasure to the maximum. 😏
IV. Combining clitoral and G-spot stimulation
A. Double stimulation
To increase your chances of achieving vaginal orgasm, consider combining clitoral and G-spot stimulation . You can use your fingers or accessories to stimulate both areas at the same time. Adapt your technique according to your preferences and sensations.
At Puissante, we have developed Coco , a toy that offers you the possibility of both internal and external stimulation, according to your desires and preferences. With its ten modes for each function, it adapts to your morphology, giving you the possibility of choosing penetration or not. Its suction part exerts a “pulsed air” technique on your clitoris. 💪
B. Playing with rhythms and intensities
Vaginal orgasm is not a race, so take your time and explore different intensities and rhythms. Alternate between clitoral and G-spot stimulation, and adjust the pressure and rhythm according to your sensations. Let yourself be guided by your body and your pleasure.
V. Communication with oneself and/or with one's partner
A. Express your desires and your limits
Learning to listen to your body and express your desires and limits is essential for a fulfilling sexual experience .
Whether you practice masturbation alone or with a partner, do not hesitate to communicate your preferences and feelings. 🗣
B. Take your time and stay patient
It is important to remember that vaginal orgasm can take time and does not always come quickly. Stay patient and persevere in the practice. Discovering your body and your erogenous zones is a process that takes time and attention.
VI. The benefits of vaginal orgasm and masturbation
A. Improved physical and mental health
Masturbation and vaginal orgasm can help reduce stress and anxiety, improve sleep quality, and relieve menstrual pain. By taking time for yourself and for your pleasure, you contribute to your general well-being.
B. Strengthening the connection with yourself and your body
Masturbating regularly allows you to better understand your body, its desires and its limits. This can boost your confidence, improve your self-esteem, and make it easier to communicate with your partner.
VII. Myths and preconceived ideas about vaginal orgasm and masturbation
A. Debunking false beliefs
There are many myths and misconceptions about masturbation and vaginal orgasm. Some people think that masturbation is bad for your health or that vaginal orgasm is superior to clitoral orgasm. It is important to demystify these false beliefs to be able to fully enjoy your sexuality.
B. The importance of sex education
Quality sexuality education is essential to combat stereotypes and promote fulfilling and respectful sexuality. Inform yourself and raise awareness among those around you to help change mentalities.
VIII. Possible difficulties and solutions
A. Obstacles to vaginal orgasm
Some women may have difficulty achieving vaginal orgasm due to stress, performance anxiety, or emotional blockages. It is important to identify these obstacles to better overcome them.
B. Find solutions to overcome these difficulties
If you're having difficulty, don't hesitate to explore different relaxation and stress management techniques. Meditation, yoga, or deep breathing can help you relax and focus on your sensations. If necessary, consider seeing a sex therapist or psychologist for professional, personalized support. The goal here is to have fun , not to put pressure on yourself. 😇
IX. The importance of diversity of sexual pleasures
A. Explore different practices and techniques
Don't limit yourself to vaginal orgasm. There are many other types of orgasms and stimulations to discover. Don’t hesitate to explore different practices and techniques to vary the pleasures and enrich your sex life.
It is essential to respect your own pace and desires. Don't compare yourself to others and accept that your sexual experience is unique. Learn to appreciate the uniqueness of your solo body and your sensations.
By following this step-by-step guide, you now have all the keys in hand to explore your body and achieve vaginal orgasm through masturbation.
Remember to take your time, communicate with yourself and/or your partner, and be patient. The important thing is to thrive and feel good in your body. So, dear friends, set out to discover your pleasure and take advantage of these intimate and precious moments to connect with yourself.