The progressive installation of routine in sexual practices is a situation that almost all couples go through after a few years. The flames of initially mutually shared passion begin to die down. To revive them and give a little spice and seasoning to your sex life as a couple , you need new experiences in bed . The cultivation of sexual desire, the sharing of fantasies, role-playing and the use of exciting devices such as vibrators, are recommended solutions.
Sexting to cultivate desire 💬
Well known for their great capacity to boost sexual desire in a natural way, sexting can be used to install desire from a distance, to create expectation and to increase excitement before meeting again. Little advice: re-read well before and don't get the wrong recipient... 🙈
These are messages to generally evoke the pleasure shared last night and announce the performances you are planning for the evening.
It is a very aphrodisiac conversation that makes you fantasize on your next sexual intercourse as a couple. As soon as the discussion begins by sexting, you can feed it with email exchanges, phone calls or sensual photos. Your partner would inevitably be excited to read a ' can't wait to feel the softness of your lips on my thighs ' coming from you in broad daylight and imagine you at your workplace with photos.
In reality, all sexual desire has its source in the imagination. And with simple sexting, you can boost your partner's ability to imagine all the things they might do to you in bed at night. A lustful message you send her unexpectedly when it's late morning can only fill her with excitement. He will certainly be in a hurry to return in the evening.
Blocking out several hours , or even days, to ride the wave of pleasure is a great way to give way to excitement. Having a few hours available allows us to offer more time for caresses, exploring our sensations and mapping the other's body with our hands.
Telling his unmentionable fantasies
Talking about your fantasies to your partner is one of the most delicate exercises in a couple's life. But it's a step to take from time to time to spice up your sex life through new experiences. Most of the time, you are afraid of hurting your partner's sensitivity. But you can't be sure what effect it will have on him without experiencing it. This could well give you an extraordinary experience.
For the effectiveness of this trick, you have to be well prepared. To assure oneself of live these moments of delicate communication in very good conditions. Expressing one's fantasies with the intention of arousing sexual curiosity within the couple. Discover the unacknowledged erotic dreams you have in common. In this exchange, keep in mind that your partner may not share the same fantasies that you.
In reality, fantasies have a very personal character. Because of this, you can't expect your partner to be willing to do them for you. He or she should in turn expect the same from you. But so curiously, you realize that you share the same desires, then, treat yourself .
Your fantasies can also stay in your little secret garden, not acting out can be very exciting !
We don't often suspect it, but role-playing within a couple constitutes real sexual flame awakening objects . They are of remarkable importance to build a lasting sexual relationship with his or her partner. These role-playing games call for much more variety in the sexual intercourse. This saves you the routine or frees you from it if you are already installed there.
The culture of variety in sexual relations does not reflect not just changing positions or trying new practices . It's much more about learning to make love with your partner in a different way. Be a new person once in a while. In this change of character, the part of your brain that does not differentiate the real from the imaginary is very favorable. She sinks you fast in the world of the character you decide to embody.
Whether it's fictional or not, this new character that you build for yourself creates the excitement you seek and gives you pleasure. This requires a good complicity between you two. One of the best-known role-playing games is that of dominant-dominated . But in the choice of these games, it is necessary let your imagination run wild .
Erotic movies for couples
Watching erotic films as a couple is undoubtedly one of the most exciting ways to relive the desires of the first months of a relationship. It awakens in you the ardent flames of desire and love that animated you at the beginning of your relationship. The rapid rise in libido in front of these films will make you look away from the screen very soon to focus on your partner.
The crazy excitement provided by the sequences of films viewed, floods you with desire. This immerses you in a very exciting sexual relationship in front of the screen . The images retained from the film feed your imagination on a loop. The latter will take over to make you live the most unimaginable fantasies.
The risk of being seen
To find oneself in conditions where one risks being seen , provokes an exceptional form of excitement. It is a crazy experience that you can have to further season your sex life in a relationship with. The urge to make love in public may have already crossed your mind! But you don't give in to it so as not to make a mess. There must be some secluded corners where you can be pretty sure you won't get caught. So do some sightseeing.
The risk factor, not only amplifies excitement but induces a feeling of escape which lifts the barriers of enjoyment. It makes you enjoy a very special and unforgettable experience.
Using a vibrator as a couple
Using a vibrator during sex is a practice that gives you a new and unique experience. It is an excellent practice to break the sexual routine within couples and enjoy new sensations. She has the art of boosting the libido and making you discover more, the erogenous zones of your organization. Through its stimulating role, it causes strong excitement and increases orgasmic pleasure tenfold.
First of all, vibrators bring something new to your couple and allow you to discover new sensations, together . They can easily fit into your erotic games by becoming your new partner. 😉
Indeed, vibrators will stimulate the libido and help you to sensitize your erogenous zones more and more.
In reality, the moments of sexual intercourse at the beginning of each romantic relationship are real moments of mixing between love and passion . To maintain these performances or awaken this passion when it sleeps in you, the vibrator produces a magical effect. It brings the spice you need to unleash the flames of initial passion. You can initially use it alone , in a fairly intimate setting to prepare yourself for new experiences.
Although very practical for giving your couple fabulous experiences in bed, the vibrator is first used on yourself. Thanks to individual masturbation with this little accessory, each member of the couple prepares for its use. It makes you discover the functioning of your body in terms of sexuality and allows you to better communicate about your desires. This enriches the understanding of your partner's desires.
To make your new experience in bed special and original, you need to choose the right vibrator . Some models are able to stimulate both the vagina and the clitoris. You should consider your own needs and features. Among other things, you can choose one of the models that are:
the Coco vibrator : it is an exciting tool that provides a perfect balance between the enjoyment of both partners during sex. Its vibrating part is introduced into the vagina to produce strong excitement before penetration. It can also be passed over the glans of the penis to further stimulate it.
the vibrating egg : it is a vibrator designed to fully satisfy women. It gives her immense pleasure. With its ovoid appearance, it is covered with lubricant before introducing it into the vagina . Therefore, for a relationship as a couple, the remote control of the device must be left under the control of the partner.
vibrating rings : these are excitation accessories that are placed around the penis. They ensure the maintenance of erection in men and amplify the excitement of both partners. During penetration, vibratory movements simultaneously stimulate both partners.
Play erotic board games
Erotic board games are very good ways to spice up the sex life within your couple. They are simple games that are quite fun but have great power to intensify sexual pleasure . They are designed with the help of sexologists who are specialists in the field. When the rules of the game are well mastered by both partners, adopting this technique becomes very beneficial . The needs for novelty within the couple are well satisfied.
In general, erotic board games allow both partners to discover each other more. These are games in which there is no loser. Everyone comes out a winner. Many communication barriers that once prevented you from making your partner understand your fantasies are removed. Through these games all topics can be discussed and in a subtle way, everyone gets answers to their previously unacknowledged concerns.
The great interest of these games is revealed when you discover, with great surprise, new facets of your partner's desires. In a fun way, these games make you explore all about sex and new positions or others that you want to test. You can start from a dice or cabinet game or even intimate mission games.
For shake up the sexual routine a little within your couple , you must not hesitate to make use of certain sexual objects . They are usually accessories that you can use to prepare yourself for very intense lovemaking. They are therefore much more used for push the excitement to the climax during foreplay .
The peculiarity with these sexual objects lies in the fact that they allow you to discover and explore all the erogenous zones of your body . There is a wide range of them, but the most important thing is to agree with your partner on what suits you.
Tie or be tied
When this trick is implemented on a perfect consent between the two partners, it constitutes an enormous source of excitation. You take full control of your partner's pleasure when you tie them up. With absolute confidence, it allows you to invade it with pleasure while you also get it at will. To engage in it, you must provide handcuffs or make circumstantial use of a scarf .
In the same way, if it is you who are attached, the total loss of control of the rise of excitation gives you breathtaking enjoyment. It is a way of being given in bed by your partner. You experience a form of submission that has nothing to do with social submission. It is rather a way to surrender to pleasure to fully enjoy it.
This practice, although producing strong sensations, should not be taken for sexual habit. For its effectiveness in the revitalization of the sexual life of your couple, you must adopt it periodically. Alternate it with other techniques and regularly experience new things in bed guarantees its success.
Group sex, despite its delicacy, is becoming more and more a practice appreciated by many couples . While men fantasize about a HFF threesome (Man, Woman, Woman), women want to experiment with the HHF threesome. This experience must clearly be considered on mutual consent between you and your partner.
Agreeing on the third character or characters to associate with your group sex moment is an important step. Their consents are as important as yours . It's an experience that makes you want to lift the veil on licentiousness.
The practice of anal sex is a rather exciting option to bring novelty to the sexual life of your couple. Anal penetration can be a source of intense pleasure, but this pleasure may not be felt by both partners. To experience it and mutually benefit from it, it is important to be all consenting.
It's a clever way to spice up your lovemaking. It is the subject of many controversies relating to possible painful, dirty or violent characters that it can have. But the most important thing is whether it gives pleasure to your partner as much as to you.