How to masturbate with a cushion? 🛌

Faithful ally of sleep, the cushion is not only useful when you are in the arms of Morpheus. For decades, its use as an object of masturbation has belonged to the broad spectrum of sexual practices . This masturbation technique is very common among women, especially from adolescence.

Still taboo, masturbation with a pillow is also effective for finding sexual pleasure and even reaching orgasm . How to have fun with this form of masturbation? What are the different techniques to find orgasm with a pillow ?

There are no taboos here, we explain everything to you. ✌️

The benefits of humping

• No need to undress
• You can do this with many objects
• Can be practiced alone or in pairs

Humping

Humping , or " dry humping", comes from the English verb to hump which vulgarly means "to kiss". This expression was originally used to characterize a dog rubbing against a human leg. Dry refers to the absence of fluids during this exercise.

Without any real equivalent in French, this expression is called dry friction or frotti-frotta. Humping generally involves rubbing one's private parts against an inert object or person.

To do it alone, you just have to masturbate, without your hands, but with any object (cushion, chair, banister…). On the other hand, if you want to do it as a couple, you have to rub your sexes against each other without direct contact .

You can also rub your sex against your partner's body, always wearing clothing to avoid direct contact.

The domination of heterosexuality in our societies makes certain practices such as masturbation with a pillow wrongly considered as being only foreplay, when they are able to provide pleasure, even an orgasm.

The primary benefit of humping is that it doesn't require you to undress. The other advantage is that this practice can avoid contracting STIs or other sexually transmitted diseases, as long as your mucous membranes are not in contact.

Its effectiveness depends on the quality of your garment:

• The thicker the fabric, the less effective it would be,
• The finer and more slippery it is, the more pleasure you will get.

This female masturbation technique is common among young girls who are discovering their bodies.

Several studies show that girls discover masturbation and its pleasures by masturbating with a cushion or with other objects. This technique is also not unknown to men. The friction and pressure exerted during this practice against the glans or the clitoris provide enjoyment in another way.

Humping can become risky when the rubbing is intense or abusive, especially in men. It can cause burns and sometimes abscesses. Even though the risk is lower in women, you still need to be careful. The clitoris is endowed with 8000 nerve endings which can be damaged in the event of strong or too long friction.

Only abusing this technique to find orgasm can become disabling when it comes to enjoying by another means. Indeed, using only this technique will make you develop orgasmic reflexes specific to this technique.

Your orgasmic reflexes are dependent on your preferred sexual positions and how you practice humping. These positions and this way of masturbating may not necessarily be easy to achieve with other sexual practices.

Remember that humping without consent can be considered sexual harassment. It is categorized as frotteurism.

How to use a pillow for pleasure?

Sexual pleasure is relative and is a factor in the organism and in everyone's fantasies. So everyone knows how to get pleasure from using a pillow. This is also why there are several techniques for obtaining pleasure with a cushion.

It's very simple, we give you some of them:

• Lie on your back
• Fold the pillow in half between your thighs.
• Rub your clitoris against the folded and well-kept cushion between your thighs.

It is the great classic of female masturbation . To increase the pleasure, you can even insert a vibrator into the fold 😏

Another masturbation technique involving the pillow is called the stack:

• Stack several pillows,
• Sit on it then rub your penis against this pile.

This creates more density and cushioning. You can vary the positions: stepping over the stack, sitting with your feet together or even kneeling on the stack.

You can also lie on your side. Then you put the pillow flat between your thighs so as to hold the ends on either side of your sex. You then rub the pillow against your penis while moving your pelvis . You increase the pressure as the clitoris swells with blood and the pleasure increases.

To reach orgasm even more easily, you can try it with a full bladder. This also exerts pressure on your sex from within. Thus, orgasm is reached more quickly. Don't panic, you won't risk urinating on the pillow.

You can vary the types of pillows according to shape, ergonomics and quality with each of the techniques for masturbating. This allows you to experience pillow masturbation even more in depth.

Apart from all its techniques, the pillow also remains an essential support during several sexual practices. Indeed, the pillow is used to lift you during cunnilingus or during missionary for maximum penetration!

It also serves as a shock absorber against muscle fatigue during practices such as doggy style or when you make love while pregnant. To expand your range of possibilities, you can try other masturbation techniques in other positions, with other means.

How to masturbate using pillow alternatives?

You have many other alternatives at your fingertips to masturbate and achieve orgasm. For example, you can use your fingers to caress your clitoris until you feel pleasure. You can use a chair, the shower head, or a vibrator to masturbate.

How to masturbate with a chair? 🪑

Have you thought about your chair ? Yes, it can perfectly promote a pleasant part of ''masturbation''!

You can use the edges of a chair or the flat part to masturbate with or without your clothes on. To use the flat part, simply sit with your legs together or astride the chair. Thus, your penis is in contact with the chair.

Then, you make gradual back and forth movements , rubbing your clitoris against the chair at a rhythm that suits you. Do the same in the case of the use of edges. But, here, you must necessarily step over the chair to maximize the contact of your sex with the edge. Depending on what turns you on, you can fully straddle the rim or position it from behind or from the front against your clitoris. However, it is advisable to choose a smooth or well polished chair to facilitate sliding and also to avoid any irritation.

How to use fingers as means of masturbation?

There are a myriad of techniques to have fun solo , but only the fingers are accessible to us for life and in all weathers. ✌️

Controlling your body is essential to quickly reach orgasm. That way, you are able to know what gives you pleasure. The clitoris prefers moisture, so it is not recommended to directly caress it with a dry finger.

The clitoris is very sensitive, so it's important to be gentle when stroking it. You absolutely have to take it slow and start with the foreplay. It's about caressing the contours of your sex, your vagina, your breasts , your body gradually in order to increase the excitement.

The clitoris swells with blood and becomes more erogenous as the excitement intensifies. To avoid caressing the clitoris with a dry hand, you can use a lubricant such as Powerful Lubricating Intimate Gel or a little water. You can also wait for the time to secrete the love juice.

Depending on what suits you, you can perform light caresses gradually rhythmic and faster. You can also apply strong pressure according to your convenience. Some women prefer to use the palms of their hands, others use one finger and then two or more. 🖐

At the same time, instead of pressure, you can tap the clitoris then accelerate according to your excitement. Vary the stroke between clockwise and counterclockwise to increase excitement. In any case, accelerating increases the pleasure and leads you to an orgasm.

You can also arouse the clitoris by stroking the G-spot from inside the vagina . This part of the vagina is erogenous with fine membranes that facilitate access to the G-spot. To start, slide a finger always wet two centimeters on the anterior surface of the pubis.

Caress, feel or lightly scratch the membrane of your sex to see the difference. To increase the orgasm, you can at the same time use your second hand and simultaneously caress the clitoris or the breasts.

How to masturbate with the shower head? 🚿

The shower is an intimate and privileged place where one finds oneself with oneself. Often associated with relaxation and self-care, it is an ideal place to touch and treat yourself to pleasure.

The jet of water from the shower head proves to be a great provider of orgasms. Its coming into contact with your clit can be a source of intense pleasure. The gradual wave of sensations builds as you move your hand to the rhythm of your own pleasure.

This practice offers several varieties. Your pleasure varies according to:

• heat: lukewarm, hot or cold water;
• pressure: strong, soft or jerky;
• the distance between the pommel and your penis;
• the position: standing, sitting, lying in the bathtub.

Direct the shower jet towards your vulva and test the pressure and temperature . 🚿

Adjust according to your pleasure and let the water stimulate you and do its work of pressure.

For more benefits, you can also play to move the knob closer and further from your clitoris to vary the sensations of the massage!

How to masturbate with a vibrator?

A sex toy , whether vibrator, dildo or other, is specially designed to provide pleasure. Some target more G-spot stimulation inside the vagina, while others target the clitoris .

There are a large number of vibrators, but ours are especially recommended. We offer: the Coco vibrator and the Toupie vibrator massager .

Our Coco vibrator has two parts: a suction part and a vibrating part. The vibrating part can be used to caress your vulva or other erogenous zones (breasts, lips, etc.). It can also be used in penetration to caress the inside of the vagina, in particular the G-spot.

The suction part is non-penetrating. It emits pressure waves and is used for sucking the clitoris or the breasts.

Equipped with 10 modes for each function, therefore 7 intensity levels and 3 random modes, Coco can bend to adapt to your morphology and penetrate or not according to your needs. This offers you several sensations and various intensities of caresses.

A clitoral simulator may be right for you if you want to stimulate your clitoris on its external part. Among the vibrators, the clitoral stimulator is the one on which the choice is much more worn by women.

Our Toupie vibrator by its shape is ideal to allow you to browse all the erogenous zones of your body . It is easy to hold and manipulate with its ten intensity levels. You also have the option of combining the Coco and Toupie vibrators for unprecedented orgasms throughout your whole being.

We recommend using lubricant ! By applying lubricant during your sexual intercourse, whether alone or with others, with or without penetration , the pleasure will be considerably increased! 😅